never kissed
never on a date
never loved
never asked out
i tend to push guys away when they wat to get close to me, even though all i want to be is next to them.
it's subconcious i think but when i like a guy i tend to hide it by being realy mean to them and it makes them think i don't like them=[
there is this guy who i think likes me (we talk about almost everything, we connect on so many levels, laugh together, and he even has a picture of us together on his myspace default picture)
but i'm pushing him away without knowing it because i'm afraid if he finds out and he doesn't like me back i'll feel stupid and rejected.
please help me stop before i ruin what could be my first real relationship!
2007-02-12 13:58:54 · 8 answers · asked by thatonegirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're only 15, most people aren't really in love by that time, they just think and say they are... so don't worry about it and just do what you feel like doing...
2007-02-12 14:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry because life is good in the fact that through experience do not rush into looking for love because it always happens when you lease expect it. You are still too young but i know about the peer pressure you may be experiencing.
I turned 21 before i even was asked, hey you need to let ur relation ship with this guy take its path but you need to be more flexible and do not be mean to him....he is trying too.
2007-02-12 22:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Lornaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Almost everyone has been in your situation. I have liked a lot of guys that did not like me back. Yeah, it does hurt. But you will get over it. Just be yourself and be confident in who you are. If he doesn't like you for who you are, then he isn't worth the time of fret. Let him know you how you feel toward him. Also try to make an active decision to not push him away.
2007-02-12 22:04:05 · answer #3 · answered by Soccer Taz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 16 an never had a boy friend never been kissed or never been asked out on a dater or anything.
problem is i want a guy, i want to be in love. and i'm not ugly. i just never go out, it's basically illegal in my house. everytime i get even the slightest chance. they either turn away, get taken, or i'm taken away from them.
swap you spots???
2007-02-12 22:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by 938439 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This business of havin to find someone before your eighteen is total crap. But being really mean to them is a no go too. My adviceis to take it at your own pace and not worry.
good luck
2007-02-12 22:03:59 · answer #5 · answered by Gemini Fenrir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only 15 dont worry you have nothing to worry about...i didnt get any of my firsts till i was 18 and it was worth the wait...remember good things come to those who wait.and you want all your firsts to be special so dont rush it
2007-02-12 22:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by princess21 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry "the world tends to unfold itself as it should."
There's no need to rush things, really, things will end up good for you. =]
2007-02-12 22:05:22 · answer #7 · answered by Virginnniiiaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a problem, you are lesbian.
2007-02-12 22:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋