what would you do with your exgirlfriend if this was the case?

Question

She is 20 yrs old. She broke up with me. But two weeks later she calls me. Now she says she wants to be friends and start over and see if we can get back together. She calls me but will not ask to hang out. I don't know how one can be friends after being intimate. She blames me for the break up but I didn't do anything too serious except maybe the relationship was going too fast. What should I do? It is very hard to be just friends with her. I got into an argument with her last night. I don't know what to say to someone if I don't hang out with them? What am I suppose to talk about? She calls me all the time. Please help. What should I do? Act like I don't care? or tell her to go away?

Answer 1

It sounds like your not ready for any serious commitment with her. You need to explain your feelings to her because if you don't, she will suck you back into a relationship. It sounds like she has more feelings for you than you do for her and she is trying to get back with you. She knows you are not ready to commit and so she is trying not to push it by hanging out but her constant calling is her trying to stay in your life. As I said, you need to tell her you are not able to be just friends or you need to lay down some ground rules for the friendship.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

i agree with first answer. Go with the second choice. Shes playin you.

Answer 4

This is the reason why sex before marriage is a disaster. And, yet, no one believes.

Answer 5

Your second choice. Good luck.

Answer 6

im in the same situation my ex boyfriend broke up with me & he wants us to be friends but i just dnt see how you can be friends with your ex- im most situations it just doesnt work!!!