i have been in a relationship with my bf for 8 months, and we haven't slept together yet. because i want to have my first sex on my wedding night, and he promised to respect my decision. but am worried because my friends claimed he must be getting it from someone else since he haven’t bugged me for it.
plz what do u think?
Should I trust him completely?
2007-02-12 13:41:13 · 7 answers · asked by sunshine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't listen to your friends. Misery love company. Enjoy what you and your boyfriend have together now.
If he gets impatient or caught up cheating then he is doing you the favor of letting you know that he wasn't worth it anyway.
That's part of being in a relationship - trust. If you can't trust him, then are you two really doing well together?
2007-02-12 13:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by blahblahblah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on whether you want this relationship to continue.
I strongly commend your decision to wait. It is noble and courageous, and will profit you later.
That said, back to the answer: if you mistrust him, the relationship will end. That is simply how relationships are. While it sounds as if you are guessing correctly, you could be guessing wrong. How important is knowing?
My experience is that if you let it go and keep your eyes open, you'll find out anyway one way or the other.
2007-02-12 21:46:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way good for you - you should wait till your wedding night. it shows how much respect you have for yourself and if he or some other guy does not respect your decision then the heck with him.
no relationship can last without any trust or respect - from both sides.
2007-02-12 21:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by phatso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id say hmm has he gaven you any reason to suspect him if not then yeah trust him but keep your eyes open and techniqually if you gave him a bj thats just about as good as sex at the same time he could eat at the y and you both could have some releif
2007-02-12 21:46:36 · answer #4 · answered by vamp_19772001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And when are you planning on getting married?
As if he is going to cheat on you for 1year or 2 years!!! What would be the point!!! Your friends need to mind there business and stop telling them things about your relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-12 21:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your friends are really saying is if I would not be prepared to wait until marriage, no one else would be that committed, so they must be cheating.
If he is cheating he does not need you - right!
2007-02-12 21:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by mark2zephyr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in order to have a relationship you ougthta trust.
2007-02-12 21:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgretchem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋