ok ladies, i have a question for you. my ex girlfriend broke up with me about six weeks ago because she felt certain things were missing in the relationship. i now realize that she is right and i also realize that everything she felt that was missing i also want in a relationship. if you were to break up with a guy and then say three or four months later you two start talking again, and you realize that he really has changed and that he changed for himself and didn't change just to make you happy, would you ever consider getting back together with that person if you knew that he changed all for the better and that he changed for himself because he wants everything in a relationship that you do?
2007-02-12 13:33:36 · 13 answers · asked by frankfurter27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes
2007-02-12 13:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by 1dayatatime 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, positively YES, SI, JA! Just make sure you take it slow. Oh and don't talk so much about your changes, prove it. Prove your change with actions that she can see. Example, before you were not romantic or attentive, well then send her a text saying Good Morning or one just plan saying I love you and another one at night saying Good Night. I know sounds silly but I had a BF that used to do that and I loved it! I thought it was sweet. Good Luck!
2007-02-12 21:44:02 · answer #2 · answered by EV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends what was missing and if I truly believed he had changed. If I did then I would probably give him another chance to prove himself but be prepared to really show her because she is going to be very cautious. Good luck and I hope you did change for the better and everything works out!
2007-02-12 21:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by ChristinaN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would because that boy was not going to always think about me after we broke up or always call me. He realized that he needed to work on himself first. after all its like...you cant love someone else until you love yourself. and that is just what he did. but if the boy realized that he likes the new him better and that other girls would be better for him then i wouldnt be mad.
2007-02-12 21:38:25 · answer #4 · answered by mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-12 21:37:37 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ Ladylike ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not everygirl loves to see an ex that they were once in love with more mature. That is something I can myself or a lot of my friends doing. Don't give up and I wish you the best.
2007-02-12 21:40:35 · answer #6 · answered by Marianita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hi iam a girl and i wouldent really get back together with her cuz she kinda broke up wit you ya know i mean you and her can be great friends ya know just tell her that you figurd out the things that weere missing and she will understand k
2007-02-12 21:40:38 · answer #7 · answered by Gabrielle B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go there is more fish in the sea. You learned lots of new things in this last relationships, so make the next one count!
2007-02-12 21:37:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course, and i will appreciate that the guy did change for himself and not to get back with me. it will prove to me that he matured as a person
2007-02-12 21:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
everything you say makes sense, but you have to make sure, she realizes that you changed.
2007-02-12 21:42:54 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgretchem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋