the guy who thinks im his g/f, lets call him tom, is nice and i like him but he hasnt done n/e thing w/ his life yet. now this other guy, bob, is sweet too. i want to tell bob that tom thinks im his g/f, but i don't know how. i also don't know how to tell tom im not his g/f w/o breaking his heart. i want to be honest, but i don't kno the right words to say. what should i tell both of them? and another thing is that it's almost valentines day and i don't wanna be mean. what can i say to be honest, but nice?
2007-02-12 13:29:32 · 3 answers · asked by sara r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how could someone THINK that you are his gf? either you are or you are not. figure that one out first
2007-02-12 13:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by AMS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask youself, Why does "Tom" think he is your boyfriend? What have you done to lead him to this conclusion? Either take the honest and mature approach and tell him that there has been a misunderstanding and that you are just friends - or ignore him untill he goes away and you will have to give the same speech a month from now and he will already be really hurt. Also, do this sooner as opposed to later as Tom will probably waste his money on a gift for you and to accept this Valentines Day gift from him would be very selfish of you. If he does give you a gift you must return it and this would be a key time to set him straight.
As far as your new flame, take care of Tom and the new falme will fall into place. Tom is the issue, not the new guy.
2007-02-12 21:35:20 · answer #2 · answered by njsnowrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth
2007-02-12 21:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋