Ok, i'm 26. Met a 23 year old amazingly gorgeous girl 9 days ago. We both like each other alot, we talk everyday and have gone out together twice. Is it possible to feel like I'm already falling in love? This has never happened to me before.......only problem is, it's my best buddies younger sister. We haven't told him that we've been seeing each other. I will be talking to him about it sometime this week but don't know how to word it when I tell him....any suggestions?
2007-02-12 13:09:06 · 11 answers · asked by YummyRemmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you wanna start by telling him that you're interested in his sister and that she's interested in you. Remember that you're not asking his permission and that she's an adult and is entitled to make her own decisions. Tell him that this is just a heads up so that he knows what's what. Be sure to stress that you have 'honorable intentions'.
2007-02-12 13:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what the best way would be. However I know of a funny way. Tell your best buddy your story. Tell him that you met this great girl the other day and that you two are in love blah blah blah Jada Jada Jada. Then tell him that the problem is that this girls brother is a bit of an A-hole but you must for some reason tell the brother of what you are doing. Then have your buddy answer the question for you. Most likely he will give you good advice of some sort. After he speaks his mind about how love is more important etc etc then tell him that the A-hole is him hahaha big funny joke. I think because it was presented as a joke even though you are dead serious about the whole thing he might take it a bit easier. Also, if he does anything opposite of the advice he gave you then he will look like a hypocrite.
2007-02-12 13:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not like you're 16 and she's 13. If he's your best buddy, I assume that you've known his sister for some time. Tell him that you and she started talking to each other one day and found out that you really enjoyed each other's company. You've had alot of phone conversations and a couple of dates and you wanted him to know about it since he's your best friend and you want him to know up front that you're gonna treat her right.
If he gives you a black eye, then you and your friends oughta clean up your social skills, you're too old for such nonsense.
2007-02-12 13:21:07 · answer #3 · answered by Casperia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your best friend ever said to stay away from his sister when you first met her?
How good of a best friend is this guy?
Is your friend a violent person?
A good friend wouldnt stand in your way unless he is overprotective.
A good brother of your GF wouldnt give you a black eye unless you gave her one first.
You wont know until you tell him.
Tell him straight, nothing worse than beating around the bush with nervousness and hesitation.
Love is full of risks, reap the rewards and the consequences.
2007-02-12 13:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm well not sure there is a really goo dway to break it to him. Probably just tell him that you two really like each other and that you will be respectful with his sister and treat her right. Make sure you follow through on the treating her right part by the way.
2007-02-12 13:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should sit him down and tell him that you are going out with his younger sister but that you are not like the other men and that you will take care of her. He will probably think that maybe you are really good guy for his younger sister.
2007-02-12 13:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by hey u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Havent you ever heard of the 'unsponkin' rule 'never go out with you best friends sister'? But you know if you like her follow your heart and do what you think is best for you and the relationship....
2007-02-12 13:15:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should be happy that someone he thinks is great enough to be his best freind is going to really care for his sister. he may be mad at first, but if you really like this girl, don't give it up, becouse he just might need to get used to the situation, just don't throw it in his face all the time, good luck.
2007-02-12 13:14:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear a helmet.. LMAO... If your a great guy and he thinks your good enough for his sister then you should be OK.. Just make sure you tell him you only have good intentions.. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-12 13:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, he's your best buddy, if your a good enough friend to him, why wouldn't you be good enough for his sister? !
2007-02-12 13:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋