does anyone know if you are still a virgin if someone in your family rapes you?

Question

are you a virgin if someone in your family sexually abuses you?

Answer 1

IF U WERE MOLESTED YES IF U WERE SEXED THAN NO!!

Answer 2

If this has happened to you, I hope you are taking the steps to prosecute this person, family or not! You are not a virgin if there was sexual penetration, however, I do agree that you are the one in control of your virginity. It is a gift you give, and should not be taken. If it was taken, I am so very sorry, and cannot imagine how you are feeling. The right thing to do, is to TAKE BACK THE CONTROL that was taken from you. Prosecute this sick person now!!!! Think of the other women you will be saving from this crime.

Answer 3

Well, in a physical sense, you are no longer a virgin because your body was violated. But, in spirit, you are still a virgin because virginity is something that should be willingfully given. The first time you have sex with someone you love will be when you truely lose your virginity. However, if this is really happening to you and is not just a hypothetical situation, you should report the abuse. Nobody has the right to do that to you.

Answer 4

I believe that virginity is more of a state of grace than it is a physical condition - so unless you've chosen to share your body with someone, you're still a virgin, in my opinion.

There is a vast difference between the experience of being sexually abused and the experience of making love with someone you really care about.

I hope that you will talk to your parents, your teacher, or the nurse at school, or some other adult about what has happened to you, and that you will get help with your situation. No one should have to go through sexual abuse alone.

Take care of yourself.

Answer 5

first if you were raped it needs to be reported. you should be checked out to amke sure youre okay. medically you wouldnt be considered a virgin, but in a way you still are. until you decide to allow someone to have sex with youre a virgin. if you have been a victim of assualt is strongly suggest getting some counseling, not that theres anything wrong with you, but this is a very difficult thing to deal with. i hope your okay.

Answer 6

Physically no. But you do have your purity! And purity is the cleanliness of virginity. Virginity is the rock, but the diamond is purity. So hang in there girl. YOU ARE PURE. Only you can give that away.

You are still very special to God. In the Islamic religion, because they are backwards, they would hold you responsible for the tragedy of abuse. Recently, a young lady in Iran was raped by five men. They got five years in prison, but she was given the death penalty for fornication!

But in Christianity, God always looks to your heart and not your circumstances. I say go to your nearest Assemblies of God church and seek counseling.

Answer 7

probably not. once a penis is inside of u you're no longer a virgin. but who says u have to tell everyone. u can still tell people your a virgin. who cares

Answer 8

no really sorry
doesn't matter who it is but if they penetrate then your virginity is gone

Answer 9

No matter if it is rape or you voluntarily have intercourse, once you are penetrated you are no longer a virgin.

Answer 10

If a penis enters your vagina, you are a virgin no more.

Answer 11

medically and technically speaking no you're not a virgin anymore.... ethically and morally speaking personally I say yes....(the same thing happened to me growing up) I say if it's forced it doesn't count. I'm sorry you're having to go through this and don't wait to go see a counsellor.