I have this guy who I really wanted to be friends with benefits. Yet he cant seem to handle the friendship part. I really like him. We are both grown a*! adults and enjoy sex with each other very much.
But I feel disrespected cuz he only responds to me when he wants it. Or like recently he told me he was no longer interested and couple weeks later he is all up on me again. Then back to same ol same ol of no response.
What should I do? I really like having sex with him. I would like to be his friend. I've tried to talk to him via email. Should I just confront him when he gives me a booty call again? ask him what exactly is going on? I'm so confused but I really like him. I have a lot of respect for him as a person. I just wish he had some for me as a friend...arg!
2007-02-12 12:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by MassageGoddess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Friends with benefits is so lame. What are you two people afraid of or anyone for that matter. Whats wrong with being girlfriend/boyfriend! Have you no respect. Why is this world so hung up on sex? Can't you find someone for something more meaningful. I am so sick of this carefree sex world we live in. How do you feel about yourself afterwards? In time I am sure this will get old for you and one day you may want to find love over sex. Don't be stupid and grow up. He is just using you period.
2007-02-12 13:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's the same as a vibrator! This is what you wanted remember?
You're getting emotionally involved in a situation that you deemed to be friendly sex, so don't be mad at him when he's playing by your rules and you're trying to change the game. Make up your mind.
If you want him just for sex, don't complain when he calls when he wants it and not just when you want it. BTW you might try having a relationship before the sex! The sex is much better and you get it more often!!!!
2007-02-12 21:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well consider it a booty call but flip it around and tell him that you wont be able to get together when he calls and see how fast he snaps back if that dosent work and your OK with it keep it how it is and have someone else too!
2007-02-12 20:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by honeybuzz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it really sounds like he only likes you because you have sex with him
theres plenty of fish in the sea
and its a lovely day for a swim :)
2007-02-12 21:00:50 · answer #4 · answered by neverendinglovee. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he wants a relationship or just sex.
2007-02-12 21:00:48 · answer #5 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he use u as his w.h.o.r.e
:S
anw ,thats totally stupid ,u're not his sex slave ,whenevr he calls u have to be ready,dont wana sound feminist ,but u respect him,he has to respect u too!
2007-02-12 21:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Frozen.Flame 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he doesnt have any respect for you...
I agree with 1st answer
2007-02-13 20:47:52 · answer #7 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋