im a nevous wreck sometimes i even wait for the girls to ask me out how pathetic is nt it i cant stand it! i want to ask her out but im afraid of the answer its scary. and shes like a wonderfull girl i cant work up the courage i need help!
2007-02-12 12:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by dabombbittner 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Practice on some girls that you don't care whether they say yes/no or whatever. Gain confidence. Don't hang all your hope on one girl, because unlike the movies, she probably isn't going to be the one you end up spending some time with. Girls pick you not the other way around. Chances are she has already assessed you in less than a second. She already knows her answer....You just need to ask to get it out of your system and move on.
2007-02-12 12:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No risk, no gain my friend. You just have to do it, and if she rejects you - put it down to experience. This is how you will develop fortitude and confidence, learning to accept the rejection, realizing it's not the end of the world then getting over it. It's the worst fear we guys have and it takes some getting over, whether that's by winning or losing.
But then...If she says yes, that's just win win! Be honest and just have fun.
2007-02-12 20:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by Gruntled Employee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, what's the absolute worst that could happen?
She could say NO.
She's a GIRL, she's not an alien with superpowers that will fry you with her lazer-eyes for daring to speak to her!!!
Just relax. The girls are usually as scared as the guys are....so you already have that in common!
2007-02-12 20:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have never ben turned down but i was so scared to ask my guy out but he ended up asking me first and i knew that he felt the same way so i say go for it maybe she is thinking the same thing!
well i hoped this helped good luck!
2007-02-12 20:45:17 · answer #4 · answered by sweetness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or version of dooface and theres are completly different do something they think is romantic like give her a flower or something like that and just ask that is the best way i have come up with yet.
2007-02-12 20:44:32 · answer #5 · answered by Mr.Brightside 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to her. Let her stare at your gorgeous eyes, say "hi", flirt with her and then ask her out. Worse thing that can happen is she says no. Then you can cry on my shoulder.
2007-02-12 20:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋