Is it over?

Question

Single coworker used to compliment me on my body, send me TMs with pics of me, and call me on my cell. After a few months, i thinking he was just shy, i told him i liked him and if he ever wanted to go out we could. After that everything stopped but he'd ask my friend about me alot and sometimes send me sex jokes, sometimes sit next to me to do word puzzles. (!) Lately we aren't getting along well, we are getting on each others' nerves (we work together.) There's some tension. Sadly, i still like him. Should I give up?

from what i know he doesn't have a gf, and also he has told my friend that he likes talking to me cuz i'm smart, i don't think it'sl all physical

Answer 1

his fantasy became a reality. he may have a girl outside of work, and flirting was fun, but the thought of teh real deal was way too much to comprehend.

the only answer here is to ask him why the change in attitude, and that you miss the 'other' him.

Answer 2

I think you should give him up, because it sounds like he's only interested in you for physical reasons. If you want to pursue a relationship with him, go ahead, but I'd be hesitant about it, because I don't go out with guys who just want sex, and that sounds like all he's after. I want someone who has an interesting personality and who likes me because of my personality and intelligence, not just because of my body. I don't know if you want the same things in a guy that I do, but if you do, I think you should give up on him and find someone who's worth your time (in a relationship kind of way-- if you want to, you can still be friends with him, but make sure he knows you don't want to go any further if that's the case).

Answer 3

No don't give up always follow your heart.

Answer 4

no way girl go for him