my fiance of 3 years broke up with me and i wanted to know wether you think i should write his family a card to say " Thank you" or just something small. I feel i have lost not only my fiance but his family also, what do you think, should i let go
2007-02-12 12:34:10 · 18 answers · asked by Nat555 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I think it'd be nice especially if you were close with his family, they have also lost a daughter, even though you were not yet married, I'm sure they thought of you as one of the family. They may respond, they may not..to me it's kind of closure on the situation.
I'm so sorry for things going down the drain, may you find someone who is worthy of you and the love you can give.
2007-02-12 14:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Kitikat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you writing a card? to tell them about the break-up? if so no let him do that. If it is to tell them how you feel about them, then go ahead. Do not make yourself look like a victim but rather a level headed women that will get through this even if your heart has been bruised. Good luck.
2007-02-12 14:16:56 · answer #2 · answered by Happy and in l love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just how close were you? Did you and future mom do things together like shop or go to lunch? If you were that close, I would go & see them when the ex was no where near the place.
If you feel close enough you want to write, tell them you're sorry things didn't work out between you & their son & that you appreciate all their kindness towards you (if that's the truth.)
2007-02-12 12:56:03 · answer #3 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a letter or short note would be very nice. That is very thoughtful of you. Then you should let it go and find some one else. Move on. Who knows, maybe it was for the best and your prince charming is out there waiting for you!
2007-02-12 12:38:23 · answer #4 · answered by Wicked Momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be very considerate of you to send a simple note or card to his family and let them know that even though you and he are no longer together that they have meant a lot to you and you will miss them.
2007-02-12 12:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Polly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can empathize with your break up!! But let him handle telling his family!!1 Let some emotions come down before approaching the family!
2007-02-12 14:16:04 · answer #6 · answered by sexychocolatecity21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont think its a good idea. If anything it may endear you to them more and they may try to get you two back together. Not a good situation for him or you. Especially since he was the one who broke up with you.
Leave it alone. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-12 13:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might send a letter of appreciation to his mother for the kindnesses that they showed you. Keep it short and sweet.
2007-02-12 12:38:01 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been friends with his samily, then a card is a nice gesture. But keep it very simple.
2007-02-12 12:53:19 · answer #9 · answered by mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately, you probably need to let it go. usually when you and a guy break up that means his family breaks up with you as well.
2007-02-12 12:57:31 · answer #10 · answered by Dawnita 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋