i know this girl is gonna ask me out in Valentines tomorrow, i don't like her, but she is my friend. I don't know how t reac when she asks me. and also how not to hurt her feelings?
2007-02-12 12:33:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i said i don't like her , I mean that i don't like her as a girlfriend, but only as a friend.
2007-02-12 12:40:21 · update #1
Tell her the truth. There's really no way to do it without hurting her. Let her know how that you just want to be friends. Or you could just go out and make it incredibly akward and uncomfortable so she won't want to go out again.
2007-02-12 12:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u rejected someone, its hard to hurt the other feelings. Just let her know that u haf always treated her as a very good fren just like everyone else. She will get the hint. Try not to say things like she will get someone better bt change the topic to something, 'lets enjoy the day todae' so that to bring her out of the sadness.
2007-02-12 12:40:05 · answer #2 · answered by (^InLove^) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the situation that requires some tact. When she asks you, if she asks you, you need to tell her that you like spending time with her, but just so there's no confusion, you don't know that you want to jepordize the friendship you have with her if a dating relationship doesn't work out. Good Luck.
2007-02-12 12:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm afraid it will hurt her feelings, but if you are honest about your feelings for her and she really does care about you as a friend she'll get over it pretty quickly. Just be as nice as you possibly can. And be understanding if she seems a little distant for awhile. It may be pretty embarassing for her.
2007-02-12 12:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Charles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her Valentine. Make her feel like she's heaven. Then, sadly tell her that you just want to be friends. Make sure you give her a hug.
2007-02-12 12:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Stela P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since i'm so sexy and change my gf like i do my socks i'll help you. Just say there is another chick your banging or your going away or you have alot of work to do some bulls hit thing that sounds important like helping with charity so you look good and you don't have to date her.
No need to thank me I know i'm great!
2007-02-12 12:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and let her know in a nice way..Let her know your not ready for a girlfriend and you just want to be friends...She'll understand eventually and won't hold it against you and you guys can continue being friends!
2007-02-12 12:44:18 · answer #7 · answered by Alejandra2008 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a really really hot girl that is way out of your league to go out with you. Then listen to what she says, say thank you. and then go to the girl you want to "reject" and repeat it back to her in a more "Masculine" way.
2007-02-12 13:00:08 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull her to the side and tell her how you feel! Dont be harsh be gentle. If she's a real friend shell understand!
2007-02-12 12:50:33 · answer #9 · answered by keisha B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...... Just go out on the date. In the end, just don't give her a passionate kiss. If she finds out that our not "PASSIONATE" with her, she would lay off.
2007-02-12 12:36:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋