Ok, so I'm seeing this guy. We have no commitment as of yet. Things are still pretty new. Even tho we are sleeping together already. I've met his best friend. His best friend has more going for him, more stability, duzn't have a curfue and actually drives. Plus, the BF and I are so much alike and I have become really attracted to him. I can't help it! We have the same personality and just really click. What should I do? I don't want to hurt anyone but I know things just aren't going to work because he and I are so different and his mother has way too much control over him...
2007-02-12 12:28:29 · 8 answers · asked by MassageGoddess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do both of them
2007-02-12 12:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MC.. I had a curfue and I was sleeping with my boyfriend.
Anyways, before you do anything you need to break up with this other guy.. like the other girl said, if you're flirting and whatnot with him.. thats slutty!! But anyways, if you really click then try him out.. as you said, you're not committed anyways.. and you only live once, dont want to waste that time wondering if you would prefer to be with someone else.
2007-02-12 12:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
:o
well, if you like this other guy more then the guy your dating you should think about your feelings and if you think you would have a better relationship with the other guy you NEED to talk to your BF and tell him that you think its best that you break up because you dont have feelings for him the way you have feelings for the other dude.
but if you only like his friend because he doesnt have a curfuw and drives or whatever then i dont think those are good enough reasons to want to go out with someone
good luck:]
2007-02-12 12:33:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's life. somebody's feelings are gonna have 2 get hurt in this situation (unless you lie but that doesnt help in the long run). just get wit the BF and the sooner u do the quicker everything will smooth over
2007-02-12 12:34:50 · answer #4 · answered by teeteewoods69 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to his friend first and then both of you break the news to you GUY? And stop sleeping right off the bat.
2007-02-12 12:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him you want his friend...people waste so much time oh oh oh what should I do, I say go for it, you only live once, and its short at that.
Besides, what if you wait to long and someone else jumps on him?
2007-02-12 12:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If someone has a curfew you are probably too young to be sleeping together.
2007-02-12 12:31:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think u should tell him how u feel and if he feels the same go with the another guy
2007-02-12 12:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by babygurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋