So, the boy Im inlove with broke up with me yesterday..
And, he doesnt know how happy he made me.
See, I dont have very many friends, infact I only hung out with one other persont hen him. Because im super shy. Anyways, I was slowly getting used to hanging out wtih people (because he has alot of friends), but then yesterday he broke up with me because, I wasnt ok with hanging out with big groups ALL the time, because im used to one on one. But see he made me happier then ever, because of him, i was hanging out wtih people on a regular basis, i was passing school (he helped me with my math), even my parents said they've never made me so happy. He said were "to different" but He just thinks that the person he dates had to be a clone to him, he doesnt get everyone has different views, and he doesnt realise how i was acutally getting used to being with other people. And i dont know what to do, I havnt even left my room today, i feel dead. What should I do
2007-02-12 12:27:09 · 4 answers · asked by Katrina G 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm so sorry. I know your heart is so broken right now. I feel that it will help you to be with a friend right now. Even if you can talk to your mom about how hurt you are , we all need some support from someone in times like this. Loosing someone you love like you have will cause us to grieve. Even though you feel like you want to be alone, I hope you will talk to some one to comfort you.
2007-02-12 12:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First when u broke up u move on second I'm on ur side I don't like to hang out in groups either maybe u and him was not ment for each other sometime u do need a person who has something in commen with u if u has not much in commen with the guy u need to tell, and most important if u find the relationship is going bad u should be the one to say break up it feel much better than the him telling u to break up. U should know girls is softer than guys so if u break up with him he would be back very soon not like most of us getting hurt alot.
2007-02-12 20:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by Baoqi X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. If he doesent want to be with you he's probably not the guy you thought he was. But please, please dont let this make you too depressed. I encourage you to be more social widen your circle of friends; I you want friends be a friend. You said you were hanging out with larger groups of people, so start from there. Even if he is not your boyfriend anymore you can still be good friends. This probbably doesn't sound good to you now but trust me; you'll make friends youll be happy. :)
2007-02-12 20:37:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up.
Go out, go to anywhere that would relax you, park, movie, mall.
Do sports, sweat it out.
Time heals.
2007-02-12 20:32:25 · answer #4 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋