every time i c u, u make me bad about herself and very sorry about me. so pls stop contact me before ill do something wrong again, that means the pain will become greater and harder next time......
So everyone.....please......i know there is a chance for us if i really try hard to beg her....but i am so lost....with empty brain....ofcause i love her and i want her back but in the other hand i know that she don't really love me at all, but will time make the different? can i actually make a woman love me? is it worth trying or just waste of my time and i will receive greater pain???? god! i love her.....
2007-02-12 12:18:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women do this. Next time treat the woman like crap and she'll love you forever.
2007-02-12 12:21:32 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Barker 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well I have some experience in this field after being with a woman for quite some time and to have her walk out of my life 3 years ago was devastating, and it hurt a lot as well I had never been unfaithful to her or cheated on her and not only did she leave but went to another state
like I said I know it hurts but you will get over it, you just have to stop sulking and be more aware of those around you who probably have noted your loneliness and sadness and want to be a part of your life and you are so blinded by what you had that you are missing what is right there under your face in plain sight.
Just the next time you fall in Love with someone as a little advise don't allow her to know how much she means to you so soon, sometimes these things come back to blow up in your face, treat her with respect and take things slowly, and what ever you do don't talk about the past relationship with her, because she may just see your Flaws, and take advantage of them.
Like the saying goes there are plenty of other fish in the sea, But don't forget fishing is a sport that takes time not a fast rushing sport.
2007-02-12 12:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by MinO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't push too hard or you'll just scare her away even more. I think you should give her some time off without seeing her or talking to her at all. Maybe after that you can start talking to her again very casually. Be her friend for a while and try to hold your feelings in front of her. Hopefully, she'll realize what she lost and she might start to really like you again. For now, give her space. Good luck.
2007-02-12 12:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can not make someone love you! The harder you try the more she will walk away from you. It is crucial you understand that. She will think less of you if you beg!
Give it time, away from you, she may realize what she's lost, and come back, and if not, the pain WILL go away.
2007-02-12 12:28:18 · answer #4 · answered by John T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, i'm sorry issues have not worked out. If she become your female friend, it would in all likelihood be perfect to pass on, not uncomplicated because it truly is. on the different hand, if she's your spouse, there's a more beneficial everlasting dedication and that i'd say save attempting to tutor your like to her, yet you would ought to do it otherwise. there's a e book my husband and that i examine previously we married that explains what I advise. it is called "The 5 Love Languages" through Gary Chapman. in this e book he explains that folk have diverse "languages" they use to provide/receive love. they're: a million) Getting/Giving presents, 2) actual contact, 3) high quality Time, 4) Acts of provider, and 5) words of confirmation. So operating example, in case your love language is actual contact, yet hers is Acts of provider, she is going to sense more beneficial loved in case you do the laundry than in case you kiss her. it truly is going to be too late, yet i'd attempt to make sure how she likes to be loved and "communicate the language". it is truthfully worth a shot. whatever occurs, God loves you deeply. . . and His love not in any respect variations!
2016-11-27 19:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S MESSING WITH YOUR HEAD, TIMOTHY! Don't give her that power over you....it will surely end in tears! Why do you want someone who causes you this much grief and who you have to BEG to love you? Move on, you can't make her love you. She's not worth it and life is too short for this nonsense.
2007-02-12 12:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by N0_white_flag 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz u loved her so much u smothered her
2007-02-12 12:21:37 · answer #7 · answered by teeteewoods69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her or you will never live it down
2007-02-12 12:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋