i need help w/ anything u ot on sex. tell me what to do. and how tomake it fell good i'm 14 yrs old and yes he'll use a condom
2007-02-12 12:17:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO NOT say i'm TOO YOUNG. i really want to.!!
2007-02-12 12:22:12 · update #1
what if i don't and he breaks up w/ me?? I LOVE HIM.
2007-02-12 12:23:12 · update #2
i can't get pregnate cuz i ain't started my period
2007-02-12 12:24:11 · update #3
having sex at 14 is tooo young!!!! but if u wanna know then here is some information before u think of having sex!!!
There is no absolute right age to start having sex. What matters is whether it is the right time for you. It also depends on what you mean by 'having sex'. There are many ways in which you can give and receive sexual pleasure without having sexual intercourse.
Giving each other massages, kissing and hugging can be very passionate. It's a way of sharing and showing love. For some people these activities can be more fulfilling than sexual intercourse.
You get pressure from people talking about sex. You think, 'I've got to go and see what it's like'. It's hard, but you've got to resist and do what you want.
It's very important not to feel pressurised into having sex when you don't really want to. Just because your friends say they are 'doing it' doesn't mean they are.
more info : http://www.avert.org/sfeel2.htm
IF HE LOVES YOU HE WOULD RESPECT YOU AND UR DECISION OTHERWISE HE IS NOT WORTH IT!!!!
2007-02-12 12:23:20 · answer #1 · answered by NiceGirlRee;) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I have to say don't do it and it won't feel good. You have time You are a virgin once in your life please make the right choice and ask yourself is it that important to give it a way to a person who might not wait for you. You have the rest of your life to learn with the right person. Now if you are afraid that he will leave you if you don't then he is the wrong person for you. If he cares and repects you. He would chill and wait. You don't give that up because he's cute or buff or you think you might love him. Love yourself first the rest will follow. You are a nice young lady stay that way.
2007-02-12 12:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by MARKELL M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it if u feel uncomfortable .....u are too young so don't get offended i know a girl who started that at your age and caught an std that is not curable her first time so be careful don't let him pressure u or u will regret it. starting that early could mess up your reproductive system in the future. sex is good but it's better to wait until your ready and old enough ...did he say that he wanted to be with u? don't let him use u just for sex have more respect for yourself.
2007-02-12 13:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to keep having sex. no matter what age your first time most likely is going to either suck or hurt and sometimes both. the more you do it the better it gets. and always use a condom no matter how much your in love because accidents happen. its completely normal to want to have sex at your age bc theres so many emotions going on. just dont do anything you dont want to
2007-02-13 16:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do something you are not emotionally prepared to do? To please him? What about your feelings. 14 is much to you to be having sex. What's the rush? just because you think everyone else is doing it. there are thousands on illegitimate children out there from young girls that DOT "It" to please some pimple faced fool. keep your morals. If he isn't happy because you won''t have sex with him then let find a ho someplace, because that what he thinks of you. A ho. he does not respect you. kick this dog to the curb and find a nice young man that will love and respect you.
2007-02-12 12:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just SAY NO. Of course I would want to have sex with my girlfriend But I wouldn't do it cuz I love her. WAIT A FEW YEARS. If he truley loved you, he wouldn't push for sex. Chill out and wait a few years. First, be of legal AGE and you will regret this decision. Getting pregnant won't do a thing. And if others find out, you'll be embarrassed and girls would call you demeaning names like "****" or "hor" no offense.
BIGGEST MISTAKE OF YOUR LIFE.
Yeah what the girl up said. Try some other stuff to please him . One of my favorite things to do with my girlfriend is GRIND DANCE. That really turns me on. Try it and have fun.
2007-02-12 12:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!!!!
14 years old is way to young even with a condom!
2007-02-12 12:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by blacksabbath200000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO IT!!!!
14 years old is way to young even with a condom!
2007-02-12 12:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by takestime01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are way to young i am 14 to and i still am waiting and if you really want to it will come to you instiinctivly so dont worry you will know what to do when the time is right
2007-02-12 12:21:49 · answer #9 · answered by andi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should wait a while. If he loves you he'll wait until you are a little more comfortable. If you're gonna do it anyways just make sure it's what you want cause you take your virginity back.
2007-02-12 12:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by CHICK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋