in a guys mind...help??

Question

my boyfriend is always making "jokes" or comments, if you will, about some of his friends that are also my friends hooking up or going out...he also makes sexual comments a/b me && the friends "together" if u know what i mean...so does he think i like them or vice versa? do u think he believes im flirting with his friends? what does it mean && what do i do?? and another: when he says stuff like that, how should i respond? other than that, we are a very affectionate couple...<3

im not emotionally or physically bothered by these jokes, but it just gets me to wondering...

Answer 1

*cracks knuckles*

It depends on a lot of factors, but in short I think he's just messing with you. Not all men are pervs, however it's pretty normal(at least in my experience), for guys to make sexual jokes. Just go along with him, or if it bothers you that much simply ask him to stop. Does he know how much it bothers you? Good luck.

Answer 2

If I were you, I would just tell him that it bothers me. I think that if you are calm and honest about it, he will realize that it's really not that funny. He's probably just doing it because he thinks you find him funny.

If you tell him it bothers you and he turns into a jerk or keeps it up, then dump him. That would mean you have a much bigger problem, such as him not respecting you. Good luck!

(Also... maybe wait until after Valentine's Day to confront him about it???)

Answer 3

Well he probably does. His joking means he is insecure and jokes to put his thoughts out there without people taking him seriously. But then again, he just may be "Joking"

Answer 4

Ever hear the saying "pick your battles"? Let some jokes or comments slide.

Answer 5

Say what? Once more in English please.