OK so listen my boyfreind says he loves me and cares about me all the time he spends time with me and loves to love on me we are a very effectionate couple but lately im questioning or relationship ! he is often pushin me aside to supposivly to work or sometihing i know i should believe him but i dont know could their be another women or something or is he simply losing interest in me ! am i not what he craves anymore ! someone help me out what should i do ! i know that i love him but im not sure how to tell if he is still in love with me ! ?! someone help me PLEASE !!!!!1
2007-02-12 12:05:31 · 8 answers · asked by Ally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hm.... This is easy. Test Him or be truthful. That's what my girlfriend does to me. Mabey flirt with another guy and see if he gets a little hurt. If he does, apologize to him and tell him that you just wanted his love. If not, he's really not into you and your just going to get hurt in the long run. You have to forget him then.
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2007-02-12 12:09:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is a few thing that you are able to not fairly set up guidelines and say ok now it is love. I do trust it does ought to do with adulthood stages and the era of time you've been relationship. you need to no longer be worried if he grow to be disappointed at dropping her as a pal. it is okay for him to be disappointed that he lost a pal, as long as he's not disappointed because he thinks he must have done what he informed her too. i imagine the reality that he informed her no is an effective signal that he does like you concept.
2016-12-04 02:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by lesure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok wow im going through the same thing. ok guys are jerks and retarded. and that will never change. what you HAVE to do is TALK to him. say: "i know i appreciate our relationship and all but i just want to know if you still do to. it seems like you just arent interested any more." if you really loved him and cared, you would be able to say these types of things. if you cant talk to him in person, write a letter! good luck.!
2007-02-12 12:12:08 · answer #3 · answered by sd_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I feel that unfortunatelly this is a question that only you are able to answer..
The truth is most of us women, DO KNOW what's going on, we just simply choose not to see.
I guess for several reasons...not wanting to be alone, scared, loving the partner and truly wanting him to love and apreciate us back on the same level, not wanting to accept that someone might not love us the same way we love, soooo many reasons...
I never trusted my gut feeling, just because i could not accept what was happening just because it hurted too much...so most of my relationships were long lasting and putting all my effort and love on someone that made clear they were not all that interested...their fault?...of course not....we allow other people to do whatever they do to us...
Women need lots of attention, and guys need their space...are you pushing him too much, and maybe he's pushing you because he simply needs some "air"...or he really is absent, and not giving you much of his time and attention..??
anyway...my advice...is talk to him openly, and start paying attention on his actions.....
Unfortunatelly( or furtunatelly?? ) Actions talk louder that words....
Good luck, and I hope he loves you as much as you love him!
PS: Just don't forget to love yourself....us women tend to do that @ times....=)
2007-02-14 10:31:07 · answer #4 · answered by Luna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dun worry, he's still in love with u.Its common for the guy to work and dun haf enough time for u. Think it differently that he is working hard to earn enough money to marry u. =)
2007-02-12 12:11:16 · answer #5 · answered by (^InLove^) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest. Tell him (calmly) how you feel, and just talk to him. You never know anything until you ask. Good luck.
2007-02-12 12:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by KS 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if hes backing away then he might be losing interest. id sit him down and ask whats wrong. and ask him to answer honestly if he still loves you. give it your best shot.
2007-02-12 12:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by chelsea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust your instincts
2007-02-12 12:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by teeteewoods69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋