Ok so here it is i have been dating this girl for a week and a half so far so good but this has been driving me up a wall she is not clingy she dosent like to sit and talk on the phone not just with me but anyone when we are together its a non issue but when we are not around eachother its different i know i should not complain because most guys would like to have a girl that dosnt like to sit and talk but i feal like i barley even know her like i am am just a symbol like we just walk around and hold hands and kiss i know she has problems opening up cause of past issues with guys who hurt her but how can i start to get her to open up to me and start talking to me i dont know mybe i am just being weird its only been a week and a half but damn
2007-02-12 12:03:33 · 6 answers · asked by toyota4x4domination 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust me, you DO NOT want a clingy girlfriend. I've heard from my guy friends that they are REALLY annoying and that they keep you from friends and free time. But if it's not just you that she doesn't want to sit and talk to, don't take it personally. It's just this particular girl's personality. Give it time and don't always pester her about opening up to you about her past. If she feels comfortable talking to you, then she eventually will. <3
2007-02-12 12:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah a week and a half is still early. ... give it some time.
Also the way a person is brought up has a lot to do with it. Maybe she came from a family where there was not a lot of affection growing up, it is hard to say, however.......when I read this, she sounds so much like me. You did not mention your age, so I can not compare her to me, but ...I have been through a lot in my life, and now, it is so hard for me to trust and to even let myself get attached. I think if I were dating again,I would want some one to just let me be me. Treat her like you would your best friend, and if you end up caring for her, maybe she will sense it and eventually be able to open up to you.
Good Luck, don't rush any thing , just enjoy her company for now.
2007-02-12 20:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Really, no offense but you sound like a girl. You're right, its only been a week and a half. Give her time. Tell her how you feel. She'll open up to you gradually once she knows that you wont hurt her like all the other guys. And yes, you're being a little weird.
2007-02-12 20:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by Sunrise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow i was going throught this same thing because i've been hurt in relationships to. the best advice i can give u is to make sure she knows how much you care about her. and whatever u do don't ever hurt her or else all trust will be gone. give her time i promise she'll come around!! good luck
2007-02-12 20:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by sexycowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very early in the relationship , you havent given eachother enough time to know one another to become clingy or not. give her some time.
2007-02-12 20:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you telling her things about you? She might just be shy. It's not your fault.
2007-02-12 20:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Rikku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋