I'm 12 yrs old, and I've never had a boyfriend. I've liked this guy for 4 years. He is one year older, and also my best friend's brother! I am SO totally in love with him. I am crazy about him! I write potheitc poems and stories about him on my computer... I have dreams with him... and whenever I see him my heart literally skips a beat. I am really really shy, and I could never tell him I like him. I am moving soon, and I will still see him sometimes through my friend, but I really want to try to forget about him. I have attempted before, but it never works. He doesn't really seem to have an insterest in me... he doesn't really know me. He has already had one girlfriend. He never flirts with me, although he always hangs out w/ me and my friend when I'm there. To him, I'm just his little sister's best friend. What can I do? I need to do SOMETHING. Please help me! If you need more details email me. I think I am pretty, and I hav a great personalitily. I have had other ask-outs. Pls help
2007-02-12 11:56:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, are you my twin I had the same prob. What I did was asked the guy i liked straight up to be my BF. Well, um he said no twice. ( I asked him out 2 times) He never said yes though.:( Maybe you should be friends with him first that's what I'm trying. His friends said how I was short n' all, so yeah. I'm friends with him now. He NEVER talks to me, but oh well. So just talk to this guy don't make the same mistake I did. Write simple notes to him or something. Email, Call, Text, or IM him. Good Luck girl!
2007-02-20 11:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by MiMi//Janie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it truly is time to have that communicate because you adult males pass any added down the chum lane. You 2 ought to observe "purely acquaintances". it is hysterical and precisely what your doing (except your no longer a fat loser). purely ask if he isn't any longer searching for a relationship with everybody or if he's conserving out for that particular someone. Ask how he first considered you. you're prepared to sense him out through random questions previously you spill your guts. And thats some thing you ought to do. you ought to tell him that you care about him more beneficial then purely the BFF that he's to you. Be open plus being acquaintances first is fairly effective.
2016-11-27 19:04:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do when you are so young is to create something. Get some clay and make a sculpture or paint something that would have meaning for him. Write him one of your poems but don't make it all gushy - it would turn him off if he isn't noticing you. If you gave him something of you he could think of you alot after you move, and who knows, love could bloom.
2007-02-19 12:25:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You will just have to like him from afar..we have all felt the same way..date a boy who is your age and not your brothers friend.
2007-02-20 00:18:38 · answer #4 · answered by fajita 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it seems like you dont know him very well and i doubt he thinks of you as more than his sisters friend. Its just a crush - youll have many more and they all feel like this if not worse....but dont use your just friend to see him because then your friendship changes. Youll get a clue if he did like you- trust me ive been in this situation. Good luck!
2007-02-20 08:15:22 · answer #5 · answered by moi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're so young. So hormonal with puberty too. I say you oughta wait and grow up some-more men than this will come and go, hon.
2007-02-20 04:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by marquella_la_nice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well u have to tell him some how!! try over coming ur shyness and tell straight out and make sure ur frend knows
2007-02-12 12:03:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
OH MY GOSH ...... YOU have a crush my dear ..............that is it !
you are 12 years old !!!! you have no idea what he is, really !
Stop thinking about boys !! and lay off those romance novels.
2007-02-12 12:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
to get your mind off him date someone your age.... like me!
(no seriously)
2007-02-20 10:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by JL39 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋