we broke up because she wants time for herself. She says she loves me, i love her, so should i even make any attemp. We broke up like 2 months ago.
2007-02-12 11:54:41 · 20 answers · asked by yep 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only get her something if you're intending to get back together with her. Otherwise it's like pouring salt in the wound.
2007-02-12 11:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Someone who cares 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would. If I were in her position I would appreciate a nice gesture, but do not seem desperate. I would send her flowers, and just say something nice and simple like - Thinking of you.. take the time that you need for your self. Love always.....
She will take this as a sign of maturity and that you are so devoted you will put her needs first (in this case her need for time).. This may even help speed things up. Dont you take the flowers, have them delivered to her home and this will be a nice private surprise for her!
2007-02-12 12:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, no I don't think you should unless she is getting you something. Maybe she felt you were shadowing her in everything she did. Maybe you could get her some chocolate or a teddy bear or maybe just a card written by you (homemade are the best) and let it say something about all the good times you had together. Hope you make the right choice whether or not to get her something!
2007-02-12 11:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by picture_perfect 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what kind of friendship you have. If you are still friends, then there is non-specific kind of valentine things to send/give others. Keep the amount small, and not anything romance-related (i.e. flowers, jewelry, furs, etc.) A card and a book you think she might like to read, for example. I'd recommend keeping it $10-$20. (Similar to office gift-giving.) Good Luck!
2007-02-12 12:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by ibetnoonehasthisdamnid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely do not get her anything for V-Day. Leave her alone - she clearly wants SPACE.
And for you, dear one, move on! Maybe you need to be single for awhile. Or if not, there is someone just waiting for you to be done, (meaning free of emotional strings, hopes, and longings) and come into her life....
Even if you do want to get back together, or, I should say, especially if you do - let her be. When a woman needs space, any approach you make will feel stifling.
2007-02-12 12:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by Kaylaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're thinking the relationship, or you wouldnt have written in right here. you comprehend somethings incorrect yet you go with us to permit you comprehend. Hun, that wont take place. we are able to permit you comprehend those style of solutions yet on the top of the day its purely you which ones could concentration on it. You sound like a fine looking woman, until you're waiting to settle for that this relationship isn't nicely worth it ( sooner or later the undesirable days will take over the solid ) and which you're nicely worth greater advantageous than all this, are you able to progression on. As for now, getting out and approximately, spending time with pals and kinfolk. Failing that have a common evening consultation of unhappy songs and choccie, and a few wine bah comprehend its undesirable and corny yet i think of one evening of moping is robust for the soul!! (purely the as quickly as strategies, you dont wanna be doing this for all time)
2016-11-03 07:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean if you love her like you say you do then do what's on your heart and get her something. If you were my boyfriend and we broke up and you still got me something for V-Day I would take you back and give you something very special because it shows me that you still have affection for me and that I still mean something to you even though we not together.
2007-02-12 11:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Cheek~meek 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she wants time for herself, so let her have this time for herself instead of interfering by being back in her life again.
It is sweet that you still want to be in her life by sending her stuff for Valentines day, but she wants this time for herself. You not getting her something for Valentines day will hopefully be a little shocker for her and realize "oh my gosh, he is actually gone..." and she will maybe want you back.
let her be for a little while. she is still yours, but hey think of it this way, at least you dont have to spend any money for valentines day!
2007-02-12 11:58:58 · answer #8 · answered by GirlInMassachusettTOWN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Quickly - emphasis on quickly - find an extremely ugly fat chick. Make a homemade porno with this fuggly girl. Buy a box of chocolates. Empty the box out. Put the porno tape in the box, and have it delivered to her on valentines day.
And be honest with yourself - she's ******* other guys.
2007-02-12 12:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by #1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still love her, make this attempt. However make it simple. This will be a good time to figure out if the relationship is worth waiting for. PeAcE!
2007-02-12 12:00:25 · answer #10 · answered by Dalanis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋