here is the story. I know this 2 girls, and one of them likes me ( i know this because the other told me) however once she told me, she said "do u like her" and i said "no" , but I felt like saying "the one i like is u" ( but i did not) What can i do? I mean, after this, how can i get this girl? and how bad would her friend feel?
2007-02-12 11:43:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should just tell her. if she doesn't like you she will tell you. but if she does, her friend will understand. take a chance. the other girl might not even like you anymore. it could have been a short term crush. just try and see what happens. good luck. :)
2007-02-12 11:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are sensitive, you must remember that. This really is a hard question to answer, because either way her friend would blame the girl you like, then the girl you like and her friend would not be bestfriends anymore, than eventually everything falls apart, and you'd have you figure out how to put the peices to the puzzle all over again. Obviously, you can't hide from your feelings forever. So my suggestion is, you gotta have some hate from a girl from some point, but you gotta tell the friend that you don't like her that way, or she'll think that she is liking you for nothing and it was all a waste of everyone's time, etc. If the friend is a GOOD friend, the friend will try not to be sad and be happy for the girl you like.. I know this isn't the best answer but it's the best i've got to tell you.
2007-02-12 19:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not get between two friends all it will cause you is trouble. The bond between girls runs deep and they will not let a guy interfere. If you really do like the other girl express your feelings to her in private. If she thinks that there would not be a problem than you have not lost anything, but do realize that most likely this will not be the case.
2007-02-12 19:50:00 · answer #3 · answered by shorthappyfunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like the girl let her know. The most she is going to do is refuse your advances. Maybe she asked you about the other girl hoping you would tell her you liked her instead.
2007-02-12 19:46:20 · answer #4 · answered by sandra_k19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends stick together so im guessin if the 1 likes u but u like the otha 1 that the 1 u like wont like u outta respect of her friend
2007-02-12 19:48:34 · answer #5 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
her friend would feel pretty bad, and it is nice for you to consider her feelings. not all guys do that. anyways, start out by being their friend, then see how things go from there
2007-02-12 19:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by lalalaa123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋