My boyfriend and I have been dating since the starting of the school year. We aren't having troubles like everyone bashing the gay kids. But around everyone he's comfortable with me, except his friends. He tries to keep his distance from me around his friends. Around my friends he's all over me.
Anything I can do to make him more comfortable around his friends?
2007-02-12 11:26:01 · 6 answers · asked by Jayden C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that is the question you should be asking. I think you should ask your bf why he is uncomfortable being with you around his friends. Is he embarrassed by them or you? Do they know you are dating or think you are just friends? Does he have another gf he brings around them and is physically affectionate with in front of them?
Us women think it is our problem to solve when the guy is uncomfortable or shy or mean or cheap or abusive. It's not. It is our problem to decide if we want to confront the problem or get away from it before it overshadows the rest of our lives.
2007-02-12 11:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by mayawareness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, he has a reputation to keep. That is how boys are these days. When he does this around his friends..is there any females that hang around when he does this. If it is not then do not sweat the small stuff and move forward. If it bothers you that much then sit him down and ask him about it. If he cares then he will listen to what you have to say and he will care about your feelings. Talk to him and let him know how, why and when you feel this way. Ask for answers, not just the blow off answers. Good Luck!
2007-02-12 11:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by michellej 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he had any past relationship with any of his friends which could cause him to feel uncomfortable showing affection towards you around them. Just a thought. It can cause uneasy feelings, not meaning too.
2007-02-12 11:32:39 · answer #3 · answered by flower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh, I know what you mean, I do that to my gf all the time, my frends dont even know about us, i dont like it that way. but they also think im str8
2007-02-12 11:42:45 · answer #4 · answered by msntrprtdation1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seek Gods help, for you are in a relationship that is wrong, where two of the same sex is involved, you and he need to seek help. it is wrong.
2007-02-12 11:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by phishsports 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why dont you kiss him in front of hiss friends, or have a talk with him.
2007-02-12 11:32:38 · answer #6 · answered by isaaccrane2004 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋