what should i do? i like him but he isn't asking me out. i want to be his girlfriend, but he won't even bother. is he freaking blind? i've been flirting with him like mad and sofar, nothing. it's kinda annoying.
2007-02-12 11:23:04 · 16 answers · asked by Sunbirddie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make a move! I was in your boat like 18 months ago.I hadn't the nerve to ask my (now) gf out.Her job takes her back & forth to the US.When i realized she'd be away for like 6 weeks i had to make the move.I knew i'd regret it if i didn't.Luckily she said yes & we're still together btw.
Us guys can be so blind to stuff like flirting!!My gf said she'd been flirting & sending signals to me.I never cottoned on at all.So there you go! Make that move & good luck!!
2007-02-12 14:58:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a rude person or anything. But, you should really try talking to him, it's best to say something than to say nothing. you can't "love" someone until you've actually been together for a long time, and whatnot. What are his reactions when you flirt towards him? Have you asked yourself in the mirror or to yourself, if he reacts to the same boat as you? Just because you flirt with him, doesn't mean he's going automatically love you instantly. Men and Women are diffrent. Men need time to think. He probably really just isn't interested in you. Sorry to lower your self-eestem, but that could be the case. Calm down, you don't want to act like a fool of yourself. It's one of those things where you gotta "try" before you buy kinda things. Think about that..
2007-02-12 11:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Dreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been flirting with him like mad (your words) and he is not doing anything about it, have you considered that maybe he just isnt interested? I would be content with being his friend for now. And RELAX! All the stress of trying to get him will wear you out and age you. You really dont want to look unattractive as you are hunting him down! So just relax, look beautiful and considering you have played your part (all the hints), give him space to play his.
But again this may exlpain why I am single myself!!!! Good luck!
2007-02-12 11:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by tchickiedee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go and ask him out!!!!!. What's the worst that can happen? He'll either say yes or no, and then you'll know for sure. Stop being so miserable and just ask then you may know whether to move on or maybe he feels the same way but was afraid as well. Men also get scared. Go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-12 11:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by fuzzyfish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just do what i do write it text iet or get a friend to tell him and let it all fall in place from there i'm pretty sure it will work out between the two
2007-02-12 11:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by nolag13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing hard to get? Ignore him for a while and stop flirting with him. I would even express feelings toward another guy in his presence to see how he react. If he doesn't react then he's probably not interested.
2007-02-12 11:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by shorty2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to start off if you two arent offical, its hard to say that you love him because if you did you would already be togethe with him. dont try to do everythinglet him make up his mind decide what he wants and make the calls... find out what he can do for you now to know what kind of boyfriend he will be and if he is really worth your time!
2007-02-12 11:27:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well write him a note for valentine Day telling him how you feel and that you want to see him more than a friend
Trust me if you follow what i say>[P:
I hope he said yes< and if he said "No" Well Move On!!!!!!
2007-02-12 11:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by SweetGirl4Life09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, is he gay? haha nah jus kiddin! but maybe he just isn't interested in you. im sorry. BUT, these things take some time. be patient and jus talk to him as a friend. but hey if you want, take the dive, ask him out.
2007-02-12 11:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by MuSicAl ChAiRS! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same here, but its a little bit different. talk to him, and his friend what he thinks of u. and just ask him out, whtas the worst thing that will happen. thats what i should be saying to myself
2007-02-12 11:27:52 · answer #10 · answered by Brooke S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋