I noticed this about a lot of girls but this one girl is just really annoying me...she's been cheated on, and her last boyfriend just broke up with her...yet she's tryin to get in with my boyfriend. I mean if you know what it feels like for that to happen why are you TRYING to cause drama in other girls relationship?? He said they just talked online sometimes so I have nothing to worry about, next thing I know she has moved to his area, invited herself to hang out with him and his friends and just showed up, and now leaves comments on his page for him to call her. I'm already a jealous person but I know when I'm being unreasonable with it...but this is just too far -- why do girls do this?? And what should I do??
2007-02-12 11:17:25 · 20 answers · asked by Sarah 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
p.s. She isn't really that "average"....she always says how depressed she is, how guys always screw her over, and she has implants and wears belly shirts so it's even harder for me to deal with it cuz she seems like the type that is insecure and will pounce on any guy for attention
2007-02-12 11:19:23 · update #1
ohkay, i was in a similar situation.
Girls do this to feel good bout themselves.
They do this to see how many boyfriends they can steal.
Proving only to themselves that they are better than the girlfriend of the boyfriend she is attempting to take.
Even if she ends up "stealing/taking" your boyfriend,
it doesn't mean **** about you as a person,
Just to her, she is better than you.
Girls are such evil caniving b*****.
They are probably bored w/ theyre lives & are looking for something to do so they do this.
2007-02-12 11:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This isn't girls and this is a pretty general question. These are the friends that you picked. Misery loves company and girls who have been cheated on want everyone to feel their misery and know what it feels like. So she'll do everything in her power to break you two up. So if I were you drop her as a friend. Your boyfriend should'nt be talking to her. Not online, not without you. He shouldn't feel comfortable around her without you. So her showing up, he should have told her to leave immediately. Good luck sweetie!
2007-02-12 11:28:20 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They probably want to get revenge. She has either had a bumpy past with you or just is interested in your boyfriend. Confront your boyfriend and let him know you are seriously concerned and you want to have a happy good relationship with him, without anyone interfering. You might also want to confront this girl about how you feel about her. She is probably really insecure and sad about her past with her boyfriends. Try to tell her you are sorry for what boys might have done to her in the past, but this is your relationship. Try to reason things out with her and try to help her find the right guy for her without her stealing someone else's man. In the end, your relationship with your boyfriend won't be ended, and it will be the beginning of a new friendship.
2007-02-12 11:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by sunshinee<3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be careful with your friends some girls are evil like that it sounds like she's trying to take your boyfriend u should talk to them both right in front of each other and ask them what is going on and how the comments on myspace make u uncomfortable.....try not to be soo jealous that us a turn off to guys but still if your not feeling right about their friendship let them know she should respect u if she's really your friend. friends do try to break up relationships I'm going through that right now with my crazy friends they keep running my guys off. just be careful tell your friend to find another guy friend.
2007-02-12 11:25:33 · answer #4 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has low self-esteem, and needs attention from men to make herself feel like she is important and to feel better about herself. Hense the implants and scantless dress. She utlizes her "phyiscall assets" to make up for the lack of personality and insecurities. By constantly doing this boys will f*ck her and dum her, just adding to her insecurities. She is craving attention from your boyfriend because if she "gets" him she will feel like she is better than you and therefore increase herself esteem. Additionally she made sure you would be aware of it by posting dumb comments on his website to draw more attention to herself.
Sadly, lots of girls are like this.
It's ultimatum time with your boyfriend. Either he stops all contact with her or your gone. Plain and simple. She is going to keep workin on him, and eventually he's not going to be able to say no (just trust me, she seems like she's got a few experience notches in her belt on man stealing and has a few tricks up her sleeve.) If he refuses, then walk. You can do better. He souldn't have been talking to females online anyway, let alone letting them know where he lives or exchanging phone numbers. Once you walked and he's "avaialble" thier "relationship" will be short lived. He will get bored with her, and she will focus her attentions on getting attention and causing drama elsewhere.
Meanwhile, use that time to find a man who isn't so easliy blindsighted by dumb insecure wh()res and will treat you like the queen you deserve to be treated. - he'll come back, but that's your sweet revenge. : )
2007-02-12 11:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by my name 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend, and tell him you dont feel comfortable with this girl and the way she's acting. If he cares about you he should understand where you're coming from. I hate it because all these girls call my boyfriend and ask him to hang out with him, and i know it feels horrible. I dont know why some girls have the indecency of trying to spend guy who's already taken. I really don't get it.
2007-02-12 11:22:06 · answer #6 · answered by GC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are sensitive and need comforting etc so sensitive is this girl that shes willing to any thing to get that attention.
You should make friends (not literally) with her and stab her in the back or lead her on to another man.
2007-02-12 11:23:22 · answer #7 · answered by Topgear is my life! TG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg.. such a ***** lol.. sorry for my bad word. Keep your man away from her haha. Well, I mean not like being overprotective and stuffs. Let him know that you love him / like him and show him that you're jealous!!! Let him know that you dont like this girl and you dont like him getting along with this girl. Hopefully your guy will understand and not going to fall for her.. good luck!!
2007-02-12 11:25:18 · answer #8 · answered by justanickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her shes getting to close to YOUR man and she better back off.
girls usually do this when the mans women is basically "quiet" and not caring if he talks to other girlz[perfectly normal] see when i call i guy, and he tells me "umm yea im talkng to my girlfriend on the other line righ now uhh"
i usually cut in and just say "oh ok talk to you later bye!"
i just back off. maybe she doesnt think you two are very serious.
2007-02-12 11:24:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not sure about what she really wants she wants to just have fun i know how it feels and what u can do is just talk to ur boyfriend how u feel and if something happens then ur boyfriend isnt worth it
2007-02-12 11:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by candy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋