So... here's the story: i liked this guy and my friend told him (wasn't supposed to) and it turned out he didn't like me as more than a friend (we are friends... and by the way... he has a girl friend). Now, i don't flirt with him... but he flirts with me, and its NONSTOP!!! And i can't help myself but flirt back, i mean come on! i still like the guy... its hard not to flirt with him. But he also has a gf (like i told you before) and that makes me feel bad (not that bad....). But, i know i'm acting like a door mat.... because i keep letting him flirt with me and by the way, he touched my butt twice (I CONFRONTED HIM AND HE SIAD THAT IT WAS ONLY WITH A FOLDER... HE HIT MY BUTT WITH A FOLDER.. DON'T KNOW IF THAT MAKES IT ACCEPTABLE). he also gently rubbed his hand a little on my cheek (in a fliritng manner) So.. how can i stop myself???
LISTEN! I ASKED THIS QUESTION BEFORE!!! AND I HAVE GOTTEN GOOD ANSWERS... I DECIDED TO PLAY HARD TO GET. I NEED TIPS ON HOW TO PLAY HARD TO GET!
2007-02-12 11:06:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a life........... How old are you 11 ?????
2007-02-12 11:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by lilymae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some dignity and move on. That dude is a two-timing jerk. He is using u for a booty call. Would u approve your boyfriend to flirt with some other chick behind your back? What you dont want for yourself, you shouldnt do it to others. Pull of the selfish act. Ditch him hard. Be careful now. Dont hurt yourself. I think u deserve better than dishonesty and cheaters.
2007-02-12 11:56:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm why r u even worried about this and writen all this gibber on here get real hes a player if he has a gf and hes flirting with another girl and touchn her but he ant the kinda guy that you want anyways.. jees grow up find a guy who likes u all the way and dont play his gf and flirt behind her back
2007-02-12 11:22:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the dude likes you. But back off and wait and see where his other relationship is going if it falls thru than go ahead go for it. But for now back off and just wait. And don't play hard to get it drives guys crazy at least it does I hate it when a girl plays hard to get.
2007-02-12 11:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by Will 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally ignore him act like he isnt even there when he comes around walk away from him and dont give him any type of reaction at all even when he hits your butt with a folder act like it didnt even happen.lol
2007-02-12 11:12:45 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hardly a major issue. I wouldn't even go so far as to put it in the category of a minor issue. As a matter of fact, I don't think I'd even rate it as an issue at all.
It's just plain silliness.
2007-02-12 11:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ahve been in the same situation before. just tell him to STOP the last thing you want to happen is for his gf to find out! if he doesn't stop just stay away from him. you also have some talking to do to the friend that told thats not something any of my friends would do.
2007-02-12 11:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he has a gf, then lay off. NO BODY LIKES CHEATERS. if he cheated with you then maybe he will flirt and go out with someone else. Just simply say, " Don't you have a GF?" Then maybe he will back off. If he touches ur butt then defintly lay off.
2007-02-12 11:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by Kayley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... major issue? seriously? not trying to be mean, but remember this question, carry it with you for about 10 years, and then look back on it, and it will give you a laugh. See, to me...a major issue, is not being able to make my mortgage, my transmission went out in my truck, my husband of 15 years thinks he wants to be a woman...etc.
2007-02-12 11:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by shasta 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play hard to see. Just keep out of his way.
2007-02-12 11:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Wise Advice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will see for your self that what goes around comes around. Let all 60.000 one of us know how you deal with it, when you're the girlfriend being cheated on and they don't care all that much.
2007-02-12 11:13:06 · answer #11 · answered by lee f 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋