2007-02-12 10:52:44 · 16 answers · asked by kathy j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't listen to these clowns, there's absolutely nothing wrong with going out to a bar alone. I happen to do it myself from time to time. I find that it's actually better and easier for me to meet new people when I do this as opposed to going out with friends all the time. If I go out with my friends I'll probably end up hanging out with them most of the time not really trying too much to meet anyone new. If I go by myself, I have no choice but to talk to people I don't know and make some new friends.
I'm assuming you have the intention of meeting guys when you go out. If so you'll probably have much more luck if you're by yourself than when you're with friends, due to the fact that most guys are afraid to approach groups of girls and would rather approach girls that seem to be by themselves, even if it's the case that they happen to wander away from their friends for a little while. I know this from experience because I used to be one of those guys, until I developed the supreme level of confidence that I have now.
So don't listen to anyone who is saying you look "desperate" or "only there for one thing." Ultimately it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks of you and you should never let other's opinions of you affect how you decide to live your life. So go get'em girl.
2007-02-12 11:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what all guys think but I can tell you that I always go alone. I don't want to be the one that has no way home. Every time I have went with someone else ...I was left with no ride home. UNLESS I wanted to get a ride with someone I didn't know,a cab,etc. Of course, I went to the bar with the intentions of playing pool, games or dancing. Or sometimes just to get wasted. I never went in looking for someone to be with. If it happened ....So be it....But i never went looking. Hopefully the guys now days don't look DOWN on a girl if she's there alone. It usally depends on the bar and the men in them.
2007-02-12 11:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that drinking alone is the first sign of an alcohol problem. LOL
Seriously, I see no reason why a woman couldn't go to a bar alone and really don't put anymore into it than that.
2007-02-12 10:55:52 · answer #3 · answered by bikesbydesign 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a Girl going to a Bar by herself means that she is there to meet with anyone. Girls do not go by themselves for drinks so she looks like she is looking for something so she will get a lot of guys coming up to her. Basically every guy hopes he is going to be the lucky one to hit it.
2007-02-12 10:56:40 · answer #4 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want so much to approach and find out what's wrong. I've helped a lot of people with their problems but I just can approach very well face to face.
2007-02-12 10:57:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't recommend that. You look desperate. Guys won't take you seriously. They think you're only there for one thing. Then again, maybe that's what you ARE there for so...I guess it depends what signal you want to send.
Happy clubbing.
2007-02-12 10:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's cool.
2007-02-12 10:55:32 · answer #7 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That she must be pretty comfortable with herself and would probably be willing to converse.
2007-02-12 10:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by itzmedbd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who cares?
2007-02-12 10:55:47 · answer #9 · answered by osu_fanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's how I met your mother.
2007-02-12 10:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋