i always go to bed and start making out with my boyfriend.. we always end up having sex.. when he is done i want more... is something wrong with me?
2007-02-12 10:45:48 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, this happens with many women. Let him sleep for an hour then wake his butt up and get what you need.
2007-02-12 10:49:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jen of Eve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, unless you are unable to control yourself (as in, spreading your affections to other guys, and having your thoughts and actions interfere with your work or personal life). There's nothing wrong with wanting it, especially from your significant other.
If you want more -- and don't react negatively to this suggestion -- tell him you want him to keep going by using his hand. Or, buy some toys that he/you can use while he is in "remission" so to speak. You may react "no way!" now -- but there's nothing wrong with it. Why not? Lots of people do it, that's why they make so many of those things......
Additionally: these accusations against the guy not being able to satisfy her are unfair. The questioner did not say that she wasn't satisfied. She said she wanted more. A guy has a physical limitation in that he can't simply keep going forever after an O. That doesn't mean he doesn't know how to satisfy her. Plus, why blame the guy? Would you say a girl doesn't know how to satisfy the guy if the guy still wants more after the girl is finished? Of course not.
There's nothing wrong with either of them.
2007-02-12 18:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No nothing is wrong with you. Maybe you just need to tell him you want more. Maybe your should do more foreplay so you can get off a few times. Then have sex. Or have sex multiple times. If you are not satisfied try new things and see what satisfies you.
2007-02-12 18:48:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tim VP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you're a terrible person. Shame on you for enjoying sex. Seriously, do you really care what anyone thinks of your sexuality? Much less a bunch of people over the internet? There's nothing wrong with you. Some men would kill for a woman with a sex drive like that.
2007-02-12 18:51:34 · answer #4 · answered by Alan K 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Generally it is unusual for a woman to want more sex than a man does, but it is far from unknown and it doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. In fact, most men would probably consider your boyfriend lucky in that respect. :P
2007-02-12 18:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is probably bad in bed it has nothing to do with you unless you are a nmpho but that would mean you feel like that all the time.... but there is nothing wrong with being a nympho
2007-02-12 18:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by jark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with HIM! He obviously doesn't know how to satisfy a woman....gently tell him (outside of the bedroom) that you are having a small problem. Explain what you like, that you love him, but it might help you if he would try something new. Then try it ----- more, longer and better foreplay....AND afterplay.
2007-02-12 18:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by superbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats normal. When I first started having sex... I always wanted it! Its normal!
2007-02-12 18:48:39 · answer #8 · answered by 2Cute09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tracey,
It seems to me that your boyfriend is not looking after YOUR needs...
Is it wrong for you to want more than being a vessel of pleasure for your boyfriend? Nope.
Is it wrong for you to want to be satisfied? Nope.
If he ain't doing the job, give him the benefit of the doubt and talk to him about it...he may just be clueless about how to please you.
2007-02-12 18:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by Wolfsburgh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is wrong with HIM if he is not fully satisfying you and not willing to keep going and going everytime you want more. You are a gem and he is lucky to have you.
2007-02-12 18:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by njsnowrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋