So... here's the story: i liked this guy and my friend told him (wasn't supposed to) and it turned out he didn't like me as more than a friend (we are friends... and by the way... he has a girl friend). Now, i don't flirt with him... but he flirts with me, and its NONSTOP!!! And i can't help myself but flirt back, i mean come on! i still like the guy... its hard not to flirt with him. But he also has a gf (like i told you before) and that makes me feel bad (not that bad....). But, i know i'm acting like a door mat.... because i keep letting him flirt with me and by the way, he touched my butt twice (I CONFRONTED HIM AND HE SIAD THAT IT WAS ONLY WITH A FOLDER... HE HIT MY BUTT WITH A FOLDER.. DON'T KNOW IF THAT MAKES IT ACCEPTABLE) and my face once (GENTLY)..... So.. how can i stop myself???
LISTEN! I ASKED THIS QUESTION BEFORE!!! AND I HAVE GOTTEN GOOD ANSWERS... I DECIDED TO PLAY HARD TO GET (LIKE NOT PAY AS MUCH ATTEN. TO HIM AND FLRT/W OTHER GUYS). I NEED TIPS ON HOW TO DO THIS!
2007-02-12 10:36:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's got a gf, and after telling your friend that he didn't like you he flirts with you?? I know you like him.. but don't you think he's an *******? Just try to avoid him, and find other guy, hopefully you'll lose your feeling towards him.
2007-02-12 10:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by justanickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a gf and he is flirting with you. He is harassing you sexually and has been violent. (Sorry but let a lawyer know he touched your face and thats exactly the expression that will be used)
Do you want that kind of guy as your friend? Will you trust him?
Make your position clear to him or his gf is going to start making accusations againt you.
2007-02-12 18:44:01 · answer #2 · answered by philip_jones2003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a lot of fun, & good times to me.
Lighten up, don't take yourself so serious.
As for flirting tips, you just take what you have learned from flirting with this other guy, & carry it over to any new experiences you may have with different guys.
Have fun!
2007-02-12 18:43:56 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him exactly how you feel. I know that it sounds crazy to you, but life is too short to hide your feelings.
In school, I liked this girl for about 2 years and never had the guts to ask her out I found out the day before she moved that she loved me all along, and was dying for me to ask her out.
Just get some guts and do it!
2007-02-12 18:45:34 · answer #4 · answered by IvanDrago 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah!
Slow down girl. The first step is to not confront with him. If his girlfriend sees you talking with him she will blow. I think that you are dealing with a bad boy...
You shouldn't try to look at him at all. He apparently is more interested in you, than his girlfriend. So tell him it is you or her.
Thankz:)
2007-02-12 18:41:26 · answer #5 · answered by Kayle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy has a girlfriend--- forget about him. And hitting your behind is unappropriate regardless of what he uses to touch you.
2007-02-12 18:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Oublier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could just tell him to stop flirting with you as to not ruin their relationship
or to play hard to get, just ignore him and that might make me mad but
2007-02-12 18:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like an odd boy...lol no offense. but if hehas a girlfriend he should be the one feeling bad not you
2007-02-12 18:41:13 · answer #8 · answered by Jollypenguin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard question... GO FOR HIM!!! MAKE EM JELOUS! FLIRT WITH OTHER GUYS! GO FOR HIM HONEY! GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-12 18:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Drea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋