I live in a mentally abusive home, my cutting is getting out of hand and I don't think I can stand the yelling anymore. Should I run or stay, and why?
2007-02-12 10:26:02 · 12 answers · asked by gothica2007 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Yes. My wife left an abusive home at 15 but she made sure she had a job to stay away from home so she turned out to be very strong emotionally and intellectually. I tried to run away from home and failed so I'm screwed up for all the extra years of abuse.
You have to do whatever it takes to get out of an abusive situation, especially when it puts your health at risk.
2007-02-12 10:39:29 · answer #1 · answered by numb nuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know if you should run, but i do know that your family is disfuncitonal, and needs help. Now if you can not take living there, then you should contact a place that can help you find a healthier enviorment to live in, cuse yelling all the time can really get on someones nerves, and you really do not need to be cutting, you need to learn a healthier way to cope with they things you are having trouble coping with. And mental abuse is as bad or in some case worse then pyhialic abuse, so i think you should really go and see a therapist, and they can find you a place to stay, and help you with that cutting, and the issures that r behind them.
2007-02-12 12:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off the cutting needs to stop. You really should talk to someone about that or there is a way that I learned on my own to stop(I only started cutting to find a way to stop because I wanted to help other people stop too). Grab a rubberband and wear it on your wrist, if u get the urge to cut, snap yourself with it. About the house thing, if there is a way to talk to them about it, do it right away, all you got to do, if they will listen, is tell them that you cant take it. Another thing is go to a guidance counsler, teacher, friend, anyone you know you can talk to comfortably and talk to them about it. Running away is not a good solution cause you may think it's bad there, but it could always be bad out of the house, too. Mostlikely whoever you live with could call the cops. You could end up in juvie/jail and be screwed over.
2007-02-12 10:40:37 · answer #3 · answered by Bexx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, how are you aware that for definite he isnt having an affair? This *buddy* he is going to could also be masking for him. Ok, so invite the buddy that he is going to over so as a substitute of your guy leaving to head see the buddy, the buddy comes to peer him. Dont do a rattling candle gentle dinner... thats simply foolish. guys dont wish that. You are available from paintings in not anything however a trench coat... or look ahead to him on the entrance door while he is available in... Dont provide him the hazard to mention no. Tackle him... take what you wish... Men like agression as soon as in awhile. Being a mum or dad of twins is difficult paintings. Sometimes the guys suppose they're competent for parenthood, however they honestly arent.. and considering he bought double concern, he cant make the anger leave. There could also be the probability that you have permit your self move. Have you misplaced the child weight? Do you continue to put on the equal kind of garments? Is your hair constantly performed? Make up on? Remind this guy that even as you're the mummy of his kids, you're additionally the horny scorching spouse that he married. Sometimes guys omit that we are their better halves and simplest suppose folks as the mummy in their youngsters. The subsequent time he is going over his peers condo, tag alongside... Dont permit him move by myself.. that'll exhibit em!
2016-09-05 07:50:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a safe place to go, such as a close friend or other family member's house, I would not discourage just going there, although you would need a safe way to get there as well. Don't leave your house if you have nowhere safer to go. If you feel you are a danger to yourself or someone else, it's good to call 9-1-1 so that they can find someone to talk to you about the state of emergency you feel you're in.
2007-02-12 10:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you live at home with your family? If you are being abused then you probably should find somewhere safer to go. Don't live on the streets though, make sure you have other family and friends to stay with.
2007-02-12 10:29:58 · answer #6 · answered by Caterina C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go, but not just anywhere, call one of those help lines. Ask them for advice, because if you are depressed, running away and having nowhere to go will not help you at all. But maybe there is some sort of shelter and counselling available to you.
2007-02-12 10:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt stay. but i wouldnt run either. i had that problem and in fact i still do. i ran away for the 17th time THIS YEAR, last week. i was found in less than 48 hours. it changes your life. you should email me. i would really like to talk to you about this.
2007-02-12 11:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by danielle m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a professional.
If you are young, it's a difficult situation. They might move you, and it may be better or it may be worse.
If you have any other family you can trust, go to them.
2007-02-12 10:31:05 · answer #9 · answered by Blue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just right songs and poems or something to occupy time. believe me youre not alone a lot of people go throught abuse and pain
2007-02-12 10:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋