been keeping myself busy though I just cant forget bout her since we broke up. we have met up a few times though she says she doesnt want to get back etc and doesnt love me no more. which is hard but I know i gotta accept it and move on.
seen her today and said that we shouldnt talk for a few weeks- and left the ball in her court to ring me when she is ready.
problem is I dunno if I can be friends with her. Meen if I find out she has someone else or has been out getting into people- it will destroy me.
I cant stop thinking about her as she is my first true love. its so hard to know that she doesnt feel the same towards me no more. its like she has started going out all the time with loads of blokes from work- and it bothers me still.
Ive been going out with my mates and trying to keep busy, though miss the not txting and ringing, and at the end of the night having someone who loves you and is waiting for u to come and spend time with them.
It sucks so much- wot can I do
2007-02-12 10:18:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It will almost be impossible to be friends with someone you have such strong feeling for. I suggest that you move on from the relationship with her.
I don't think jumping into a new relationship will help as the new person will never live up to the ex's image. Take up a hobby. Read a book, make new friends do something to stay busy and stay away from her.
Good luck!
2007-02-12 10:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by bebopadowop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hiya i know exactly what your going through as i`m in the same situation except i have a child with my ex.This is the 2nd time he`s done this to us and i know i`ll never be able to be friends with him.It does get easier i promise.
It`s been 6 weeks since my ex left us and he still sends the odd text to see how our son is but thats it,i told him not to contact me and i dont want to see or speak to him for a while and that is really helping,out of sight out of mind.
Just keep doing what your doing,stay busy and keep going out with your mates,as life goes on.
He was my first love and we were together 6 years so i know it`ll take me a while to get completely over him,there`s 6 years of memories,some good some bad.
At the end of the day as hard as it is you can`t make someone love you.Hpefully in time we`ll both meet the right people for us.Goodluck.
2007-02-12 10:39:33 · answer #2 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you mate, and its good that you feel this pain right now, in a view years from now, you will look back, and remember the good times you had, when you are young and foolish. Enjoy this time now, coz every time you meet someone new, and break up. It wont be as hard as the first time, and eventually you become numb, to any feelings whatsoever. When you break up from a relationship, and you just laugh.
2007-02-12 10:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by OldBigHead 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts in 5 years time you will really know what the truth is regarding your present feelings.
2007-02-12 10:24:21 · answer #4 · answered by katrinasfather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not a nice feeling, i know, but the best thing is to cut all ties with her, it will be easier in the long run.
2007-02-12 10:23:52 · answer #5 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to move on babe, life is too short. Delete her number from your phone and stop thinking "what is she up to?" and "who is she with?" you're just torturing yourself.
2007-02-12 10:25:33 · answer #6 · answered by Buffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its her loss mate.
Move on.
Find someone new.
Better still try to enjoy being you and no you and her.
2007-02-12 10:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by bryan p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to tell you bro, i'm in the same boat as you. its hard to let go but you know what just give it time and see what happens.
2007-02-12 10:26:46 · answer #8 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i still get hard sometimes when i think about my ex. ha ha
2007-02-12 10:23:12 · answer #9 · answered by jardon 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋