This girl and I were kinda seeing each other. She seemed to really like me, but then out of nowhere she said even though she really likes me she thought friends was the best option.
I stopped talking to her after that, but we gradually started msn-ing again. We then started talking on msn for hours at a time and she even started hinting at me to meet up with her. She has now started to text me again. I dont know what she wants!!
When I asked her to come to the pub, she said "is anyone else going" and when I told her that my mate was going she told me that "it would be weird for him". She didnt end up coming. I then asked her to come and watch a dvd around mine, she said she really wanted to come, and then asked if there was anyone else there. When i told her that my mate would be there again, she said that her friend advised her not to.She also keeps saying stuff like "why do u live so far away from me" because she could really do with watching a dvd.
I am very confused, HELP!
2007-02-12 10:05:28 · 9 answers · asked by jon t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps if you made it possible for her to see you without your mate being around, you would find out.
2007-02-12 10:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by Martin 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She see's you as a male girlfriend.
Take your mate to the pub more and live a little.
Try to have more of an adventure rather than an existence.
Stop trying to figure out what she wants and work on what you want.
2007-02-12 18:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by bryan p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading this has your mate ever made a pass at her cause it's strange her not wanting to go if he is there and also that her mate advised her not to also if he was there, seems strange to me.
2007-02-12 19:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt want youre mate around. park him for a night and invit her over see what happens
2007-02-12 18:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by Buffy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever check to see if there was someone else in the picture? she seems like she only wants to be with you when no one else is around... kinda strange. She might have a bf but still be digging on you. check it out and ask her, if she has the decency she'll tell you the truth
2007-02-12 18:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by sufreshman14 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dude, the answer to your question is right there in your face. obviously she wants to be ALONE with you thats why she keeps on asking if someone is going to be with you. next time you invite her to do something make sure its just YOU.. she's more comfortable with just YOU. and her saying why are you so far away is frustration cause she wish you were closer so you and her can do things together.
2007-02-12 18:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't invite your mate and let things unfold from there!
2007-02-12 18:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive done that be4 just playing hard to get beacuse when she tells you ur gonna be so happy and then ull like her more i mean if you think about it shes just makeing you think about her more
2007-02-12 18:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like a c*ck tease, keep your distance.
2007-02-12 18:09:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋