When I was 18 and everyone was exploring sex , all my friends thought I'd done it many times bcoz I've known my B.F for a long time. Honestly,my B.F & I had sex only 1 time during 4 yrs dating! I was relying on him when to have it again bcoz I was still naive. It's a pity, he never really found any opportunities for us to get intimate, bcoz we were both living in the same house with our own families( no car of our own yet!). We only had the beach, but he never took me there.Our fate to sleep together the 1st time when my uncle allowed him to sleep over bcoz we lost tracked of how late it was. I do not understand how my B.F was popular with many lady friends though, but I didn't worry much, thinking he didn't have much intimacy options for them either. He was 22 yrs at that time. Now that I've reached 25 yrs of age, I know every1 craves sex once they've become active and enjoys it with the one they're with. What do you think of my ex lack of enthusiasm for us to find places for sex?
2007-02-12 09:34:42 · 7 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before u jump to the conclusion that he was getting his satisfaction somewhere else for being popular with girls, i live in a country where intimay is fairly minimal for everyone because we live with family memebrs and do not leave until around 25. So I assume the only girls'freedom were limited too, unless those whose families are absent a lot.
2007-02-12 09:39:41 · update #1
CORRECTION!!! SORRY, I DIDN'T MEAN TO SAY WE LIVED IN THE SAME HOUSE. SPERATELY WITH OUR OWN FAMILIES.
2007-02-12 09:46:48 · update #2
Sounds like you have lost your enthusiasm, but never fear because ill do you in the rear!
2007-02-12 09:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
why living both in same house .. he doesnt want sex with u maybe ur realated to each other.. and what was happen before is just trial..did u ask ur families why he stayed with u in 1 house.?
2007-02-12 09:44:10 · answer #2 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably had plenty of it with other women. Or he wasn't comfortable enough with his sexuality to "come out of the closet" yet.
2007-02-12 09:38:13 · answer #3 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're weird. Another chick obsessing over her 1st boyfried.
2007-02-12 09:40:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAYBE HE WASN'T AS ACTIVE AS YOU OR HE WASN'T COMFOTABLE HAVING SEX WITH A GIRL WHO WAS YOUNGER THAN HIM
2007-02-12 09:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Amberlyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think so at all. it's dangerous too. u really shouldn't try for it
2007-02-12 09:40:32 · answer #6 · answered by Haylie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was either extremely shy...or extremely gay.
2007-02-12 09:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋