FOR GUYS ONLY: Will you date me when I lose weight?

Question

I am 212 now.

I will be 145.

Most guys end up befriending me but not a boyfriend. Will I become more datable when I am slimmer?

Answer 1

♥♥ I read a survey than 5% of all men prefer their women overwieght. You might want to seek out one of them before you start losing weight, it might be easier. My brother strongly prefers overweight women, so it can happen. They feel picked on if they admit it, so many of them keep it a secret, but they are out there. Maybe use the personals to find a boyfriend. ♥♥

Answer 2

If you think thats what it is going to take to get you a date, you are horribly wrong. If you think all those guys at the school will all of a sudden notice you, then your stupid. They will notice you, and thats all they will notice, YOUR BODY! They will get with you, and sleep with you. Since its clearly obvious to everyone that is on this board you have low self confidence. Getting in your pants is going to be an easy task. Then you know whats going to happen. You are going to try and figure out what else is wrong.

Your first step is to accept the way you are now. Love your self, and lose weight for yourself! If you still dont have the will power to lose weight for yourself. Then you dont love yourself. Once you love yourself, lose weight, and always respect yourself and others will respect you.

Answer 3

Maybe, but if a guy won't date you when you are a little heavier, what do you think will happen if you gain the weight or some of it back. He might leave you. The right guy will come and love you for you just as you are.

Answer 4

Most girls thinks its all about looks when it comes to weight. Yes I want a good looking girl but when you think about it losing weight also brings a better self image(which i love in a girl) and they will do more fun, active activities with me. When you have a better outside, insides and interests will naturally change.

Answer 5

Why Do I want to date u when u lose the weight? That's saying I really not into u and just want to hit it or don't want to be seen around a thick chick. I rather be with u while u r real with urself and not worried about ur weight.

Answer 6

Find a guy who likes you for who you are now, and then lose the weight for him, if you're still uncomfortable with yourself. Just remember that what you look like is the least important part of the relationship. Ten years from now, we all look them same anyway.

Answer 7

Sorry to say it babe but if jock guys and other guys start talkin to ya after walk away they are not worth a second of your time.Belive me.Lose weight for yourself I did.The guys you've befriended might start to see you differntly after and still know how great your personality is so they will finally fall at your already beautiful feet.

Answer 8

145 is much better. You can be attractive no matter what your weight is though. Some guys like bigger women. Some guys think also, that if you take care of yourself you are more apt to take care of them. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 9

Call me shallow, but speaking as a man, I'd be far more likely to date you if you were physically fit.

However, to turn the question around, would you date a man who couldn't hold a job or who was emotionally unavailable, or who was a self-absorbed narcissist? Probably not.

I really do wish you the best of luck, and remember not to abuse your soon to be found powers of attraction. =-D

Answer 10

I hope you will find some who likes you for the person you are and not because of how much or little you weigh. That being said, yes you might have more dates, but keep in mind what truly matters is the soul of a person, not how they look.