I already am. And have 2 from the first time around.
Source: my life.
2007-02-12 09:36:43
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answered by Captain Jack ® 7
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I think being divorced and having children is not an issue at the beginning. If the guy gets to like you, then he will think about it seriously.
Some guys don’t really care, but others do. And there is always the fact that guys that have never been married with no children will prefer the same status to be able to start a family from scratch and not be an “add on” to her already created family.
This is the reason why most divorced people find other divorced ones to date. In this case, both have the same status, so they are more comfortable with the whole situation.
Of course, is not the rule, but is what you generally see out there.
Life sucks sometimes… most of the times, but we have to live it anyways. Hopefully you will find someone who can appreciate you and your kids.
Good luck.
2007-02-12 17:40:05
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answered by Dan D 5
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"Men" is too broad a term for a specific answer. Every man looks at it differently. Any man worth being with, however, will want to be with you and enjoy the fact that you have children. If he doesn't want to be arond your children, then give him a pass - he isn't the one for you. That having been said, most men will want some private time to get to know you, especially at the beginning of a relationship, so make sure you give him that opportunity. After all, he needs to love all of you, the mother, the person and the woman. My stepfather married my Mom when she had two kids because he loved her that much. Think of the advantages to going out with a woman or even marrying her after she has already had her kids. Not having to put up with the whole pregnancy thing, no obstetrician bills, etc. But seriously, some men who want families might even be searching for a woman with children. It could be that they themselves are infertile, but still want a family. If he likes your kids and they like him, that's a start, but take time with this relationship - there's a lot more at stake than when you were single. Your children's safety, security and happiness is paramount here, as is your own.
2007-02-12 17:44:24
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answered by Michael T 6
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the answer is conditional, dear...lit matters if your kids accept another man in our life
It matters whether the man is compatible to your kids, as well
And it matters weather there are tolerances that any who are involved will not compromise
I have 3 step kids.. one 'accepted' me, one tollerated me, and one is still in my life
i also had a 'stepfather', who was a far greater 'dad' to me than ever my bio-father was
Yes, i would 'be' with a divorcee , if there seemed a chance of peace and harmony and confidence all around
2007-02-12 17:58:05
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answered by olddogwatchin 5
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if i was a man i wouldnt be with such a woman. one kid is tough, but three!?! whew! talk about baggage! im sorry but i dont think a lot of guys (unless in their late 40's) would be willing to go out with you. still, i wish you the best.
2007-02-12 17:37:00
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answered by ♥ 4
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yep i sure would ...i already am dating one and i have 2 kids of my own
2007-02-12 17:36:23
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answered by Anonymous
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no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no
AND NO!!!!!
2007-02-12 17:39:22
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answered by uncle_man_06 1
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