There is this kid at school that i like. he found out i like him and he flirts with me all the time(i think) at the recent school dance he saw me and was like wow! you look really amazing! it has been i few weeks this whole flirting thing has been going on and i want to kinda move on and be more than "friends". he knows i like him a lot and he said to his one friend he would go out with me it is i just have this gut feeling he will never ask me out. does that make any sense? i am kinda old fashion and dont think a girl should ask a guy out so what can i do? is there anything i can do? HELP!!!
2007-02-12 09:30:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, Girl! Listen to Kimmz. She knows what she is talking about.
2007-02-12 09:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Rudy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking as a guy, I'm sorry to hear about your problem.
I agree with you that a girl shouldn't ask a guy out. That's not a very popular answer with today's cultural elite, but I tend to walk my own road.
What can you do, then, if you can't ask him out? Have a mutual friend tell him to act like a man and ask you out before you lose interest in him. That way, you get to see if he has the guts to be a man, and you get the romantic gesture you crave.
If he isn't man enough, then perhaps, he isn't worth your time.
In either event, you win.
2007-02-12 09:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sparxmith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stray away from him for a bit! He's probably enjoying the attention a lot, and knows ur going to be there regardless. (yes guys can be punks about stuff like that sometimes)
It isn't proper for a girl to be asking a male out, so definitely stray away from that idea. Maybe he's not ready for a girlfriend... if thats the case, you cannot push it. You'll have to respect it.
2007-02-12 09:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Reserved 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I'm like you, but if you know for sure that he likes you ASK HIM!!! This has happened to me before, I went up to the guy that I thought didn't like me even though everyone else said he did and sure enough, he wanted to date me.....but then I dumped him the next day becuase I found out he had gotten held back 4 times
2007-02-12 09:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Monkeys 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To have success you have to change you attitude.
Ask him by the way: Did you like to dance with me at the school dance? Won't we do something similar again?
2007-02-12 09:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by charly brown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun i know exactly what u are going through
dont ask him out
you talk to him just about anything and at the end of a subject
just say do you like me?
if he says yes say than y wont you ask me out?
or if he says no just say then stop leading me on!
i hope i help you
2007-02-12 09:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Goodbye Kitty 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
omgosh wow thats the same exact thing as me! like, no joke! ill def tag this question and hopefully people answer...
i guess my best advice would be to ask him yourself. thats what im gonna do because so far, he hasnt asked me out but i kno he likes me...we'll see...good luck!!!
2007-02-12 09:34:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so make sure he "finds out" that you want to go out with him tell a friend who you know talks to his friend. then if he really wants to be with you trust me he will let you know one way or another. and by the way valentine's day is soon!!!!
2007-02-12 09:34:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his "one friend" that if he wants to go out with you he has to ask. Don't ruin it for the next woman who comes into his life after you. Make him have to ask now hon. Thanks. Us women shouldn't have to chase. No one should for that matter.
2007-02-12 09:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him if he wants to hang out, and not on a date date, but that might spur him enough to ask you out.
2007-02-12 09:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by dbybell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋