I really like this girl "Katy" she is a freshman like me. I want to ask her out but am too shy. I have never asked a girl out before and need to know how. Each time I try to ask her friends i tell them that another guy sent me. and she is always taken. Now I know she is single but am afraid to ask because i have never ask a girl out before. She is really pretty and i am not. HELP PLEASE!!!
2007-02-12 09:27:19 · 11 answers · asked by Rob 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HOW DO I ASK HER OUT?
2007-02-12 09:32:33 · update #1
awwwwwwwwwwwwww.
Well all I can say is asking a gurl out is like jumping into a pool of cold water. First deep breath and then take the plunge.
Even if she doesn't like you back then go for another girl. THere are plenty fish in the see. Plus girls are really nervous asking a guy out too, just like you. Besides there is a first time for everything. Just find a good time to approach her and do it. Or tell one of her friends to give her a note (its easier that way and less embarrasing) or do it over the phone. Notes are always the safe way to go.
GOOD LUCK!
PS.
If she says no then I'll go out with u. :) (wink)
2007-02-12 09:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by CherryCherry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear boy sometimes you just have to get bild and walk up to her and tell her that you would love take herto the soada shop after school.
But do this with the untmost confidence that you can muster up within side yourself.
Let her see that you are not afair to approach her, just because you feel that she is to pretty for you.
I know that it is hard but you must do this no pickup line no hey babe' call her name, and if she says no don't give up she just may really like you and is trying to see if you really want to take her out.
And keep it simple you will do find be as bold and confident as you possibly can.
Well good luck young man I wish you well.
2007-02-12 17:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by Tom Sawyer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may be long but here we go:
Well I like this guy who seems just like you. He is too shy too. I liked him and I had my friends tell him. He acted normal but He's prob. too shy. He has never had a gf either. he is a freshman too. Another thing is dont be hung up on looks I like my guy because of personality. He is SO nice, caring, and understanding.
Heres my advice to you: You NEED to because before you know it it'll be too late and even if she does say no it'll hurt but you'll feel better. Here are some choices:
1. Have your friends ask her for you
2. Have your friends ask her friends to ask her for you.
3. call her
4. text her
5. e-mail or Im her
6. write a note ( I love this one!!)
7. In person
You just need to do it i know it'll feel akward but she may secretly like you too!
I really hope this helped you!
=]
2007-02-12 17:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle Marie<3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aaaw how cute!!! well if shes pretty and u think ur not "even though that couldnt be possible" go 4 it, if she cant see past ur outter self then she'll never work u need someone who only sees the real u. its simple chemistry when the girl 4 u comes u'll feel it instantly, by the way she looks into ur eyes , how she stares at u in class, how she'll never stop texting u, it'll happen just wait it's worth it!!! good luck!!!
2007-02-12 17:36:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself girls dont really like it when guys are nervous so try not to freak out and stay confident and you will most likely have a date with katy ...i hoped i helped you out in some way and good luck on getting that date!!!!
2007-02-12 17:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by korinne kouture;; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first dont have low self-esteem about yourself be couragous or your going to be lonely all your life and you dont want that just approach her and tell her how you feel make sure you put in their to give you a chance and you'll always be their for her and u may get her i hope this works for you
2007-02-12 17:43:27 · answer #6 · answered by lamia p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be nervous. If she says no, oh well, too bad. Life is too short to worry about these frivolous things! If she says no, then you should find someone else! Good Luck!
xoxo,
Cosette!
2007-02-12 17:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her than you would tell yourself that you will never know if "katy" is meant to be with you unless you ask her yourself. she might like you too. of course you will never know unless you ask her.
2007-02-12 17:33:20 · answer #8 · answered by walks with goats 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up and ask her out dude. You don't have a choice.
And how do you "star" your own question?
2007-02-12 17:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ccchhhiiillllll...ok, first off, DO NOT ACT NERVOUS!!!i dont give a rats *** if you are, dont let it show!just walk up and say,"hey, wanna get a soda after school?" or something along those lines...=]
2007-02-12 17:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by *~*flyleaf rocks out loud*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋