so, just last night i lost my virginity with the guy i love with my whole heart. only there's one problem. my DAD had to go and walk in on us. i don't think i can talk to my dad OR my boyfriend ever again. it was so embarassing.. how would you like it if your dad saw you naked? =|
2007-02-12 09:18:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey... Chances are if you aren't comfortable talking to your boyfriend or dad about sex, you aren't ready to have sex.... Talk to your mom about it.. Really, hun, it's none of my business, but I really think you should wait until marriage before having sex again. Please, your better than that and you deserve better than that and you know it. Wait until marriage. Who knows, maybe fate will have its way and you'll end up marrying this guy. But, please, wait. It'll be much more meaningful if you wait until the time is right, I promise you this. And I'm not saying all this because I'm trying to sound a certain way, no, certainly not, I'm saying all this because I care, and because I'm tired of seeing so many young girls have sex before they're ready, even if they think they're ready they usually aren't. I'm not judging you, I don't know you, I can't judge your decision. But just remember it's your decision, and YOU will have to pay the consequences of your actions, good or bad.
2007-02-13 13:45:48 · answer #1 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that your dad feels worse than you do. Seeing his little girl getting it on in his house with some guy who is going to leave her anyway has to be tough on him. You should sit down and talk with him if he will do it. Listen to him as well. You might be surprised with any advice he may give. Remember, he was a teenage boy at one time, so he can tell you how it is for guys that age. Be careful. Sex is not something to be taken lightly. Your feelings could get hurt very quickly.
2007-02-12 09:40:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jaybo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, youy really should talk to both your dad and your boy friend about this. i mean, you could regret it for like ever if you don't. and about the naked part, i'd jump off a cliff!
2007-02-12 09:28:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I feel SO bad for you. I would probably kill myself, not that you should. Just stay calm and pretend like it never happened. I wish you SO much luck. I hope you turn out okay!
xoxo,
Cosette!
2007-02-12 09:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
haha 2 points
2007-02-12 09:26:17 · answer #5 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
it happened to me to!! how embarrassing it is!! it sucks for a long time but you will get over it.
2007-02-12 09:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by CRYSTAL 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol...it happens it happened to me too..you'll get over it trust me
2007-02-12 09:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋