Tomorrow report cards are due and we have half a day of school.My mom doesn't know that. If I tell her, she'll come meet my teachers and pick up my report card. But the thing is that my report card probably is going to turn out bad because I haven't been paying alot of attention and I sometimes don't do the homework. If it's bad, she'll go to my teachers and tell her my bad (60-90) test grades and that I talk during class. She will get mad for me not showing het the teats. If I don't tell her, than I can hang out with my friends probably until 2:20 and then I'll forge a letter with my mom's signature to get my report card because they don't give report cards out without a parent's permission. And if it's good, I'll give it to her. If it's bad I'll keep it to myself. PLEASE HELP ME. WHAT SHOULD I DO??
2007-02-12 09:16:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
she going to find out anyway. i would tell her and get it over with. Good luck
2007-02-12 09:21:59 · answer #1 · answered by CRYSTAL 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Face the music. What happens when your grades are so bad that they hold you back? You think she's mad now, you probably haven't seen anything! You are having a problem in school and not telling your mother is only going to compound the problem. Just imagine what will happen when your mother finds out if you do what you're thinking of doing--and she WILL find out! Are you having some underlying problems--besides laziness--that you could use some help with. Some kids have Attention Deficit Disorder. Some kids need some additional help. Some kids need glasses. There could be any number of things that your mother and teachers should talk about that could help you be more successful. There are also psychological factors such as not believing in yourself or convincing yourself that you can't learn. Be honest with your mother and, at the same time, talk to your teachers about some of the challenges that you have (ability to concentrate, trouble understanding the subject matter, trouble reading, etc.) There is help out there if you want it.
2007-02-12 09:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've dug yourself a big one haven't you? Forging a name is no good, lying is not good and sneaking the report card is not good. Why don't you start from scratch and go about it the correct way without any lying, sneaking or being disloyal to your parent. You haven't been taking care of your responsibilities and it's all coming down on you now. All the stuff you didn't learn in school but were supposed to doesn't help your future. Would you like to have lots of money when you grow to buy nice things or go nice places? Of course you do. So start working for it now. Your school work is what's setting up your future. You can work in a Fast Food place or hold a position in a thriving company. It's all up to you. Where do you see yourself in ten years? I hope your not struggling to make ends meet and having to do it without the support of your family because you' ve betrayed them and the trust is gone. It's your life. Decide how you want it to be and go for it.
2007-02-12 09:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest with her. Eventually she will wonder where your report card is, and then what will you say to her? She probably will go to the school and request a copy or something like that without your knowledge. When they show her the letter "she wrote" to them for you to bring it to her, she will be super mad. Then you will be in more trouble than you were in before for lying to her and forging her signature.
2007-02-12 09:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by melody g 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'll be honest... If you are worried you are going to get in trouble then why are you slacking in school? Your grades are so important because they will help shape the rest of life from your college to the job you go into. Be honest with your mom. Don't give her a reason to be distrustful of you. Give her a chance to respect you even though your grades are lousy. Chances are she's going to find out one way or another. The best way is for you to tell her than allowing someone else to. Good luck
2007-02-12 22:37:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this Michelle but you do need your mom to know what happened this semester with your grades. Aside from being angry, she can help you refocus on how important it is to get good grades. Please don't short change your future. Friends will always be there if they are good friends. Your friends should also care about your future and you should care about their's. Lying to your mom (you know she'll find out, mom's always do), only makes you nervous that she'll find out and will only make her more angry when she does find out. The consequences of lying and forging her signature outweigh her initial anger at your bad grades. PLEASE get the most out of your education otherwise you'll end up with a very limited future.
Good luck.
2007-02-12 09:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Yogini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to already know that you are going down the wrong road not paying attention in class and now being worried about a bad report card -- don't think of this in terms of what to do about tomorrow, but be more mature / responsible and think of this in broader terms.
The decision you are going to make right now will shape who you chose to be (a liar, forger, poor student, deviant, not trust-worthy to those that love you most) and it will also determine where you are headed in life. I mean this sincerely and it sounds like you have the depthto think on this level and know deep down what the right thing to do is.
Trust me, I remember ditching school, forging my mom's signature (even trying to change a "D" on a report card to look likea "B"). But this all stopped in Jr High and one day the light went off in my head and I just decided to grow up and take responsibility for my life -- I improved my grades to a 3.8 GPA, went to a great university, had amazing internships and jobs all over the world and became the type of woman that a great man wanted to marry... and my mom is my best friend now and I could not live without her as she is an amazing help in helping me with my and my hurband's adorable 2 yr old baby.
Think on these much bigger terms -- I am in my 30s now but remember so clearly the position that you are in.
Talk to your mom about the fact that report cards are coming out tomorrow, tell her that you realize you have not worked as hard as you could / should have and that you considered just taking off with friends tomorrow but have decided to be a mature, responsible, focused young woman and will now do better in school and make better choices.
You will cry, your mom will cry and you will feel SO GOOD about yourself that ineviatbly you will start to do better. If you lie to your mom, forge your signature, take off with friends you will feel like s**it, be worried about getting caughtm create a horrible negativity in your life and will surely just get into more trouble benig out on the streets with other deviant kids...
C'mon you know this, step up and do the right thing, be the right person and get your life set on the path of such amazing things to come -- it really does start with just this one decision...
2007-02-12 09:29:49 · answer #7 · answered by Finnale 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have 2 choices:1. tell you mom the truth and if your report card is bad then she might be mad and talk with your teachers.
2. or you can not tell her and forge her name and when she finds out she'll have more than just a bad report card to be mad about.
your choice, please choose wisely!
2007-02-12 09:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by sknymnie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly my suggestion to you is do no longer say something on your mom approximately her via fact its between your sister and your mom- don't get entangled in it via fact then your sis would be pissed at u. as long as your sister is conscious a thank you to look after it then she will have the skill to tell your mom whilst shes waiting. She is conscious whilst its the ultimate time and he or she feels mushy.
2016-10-02 00:58:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being so dishonest. when u end up failing school cuz you obviously dont give 2 shits about it, she will find out. and while you are forging notes from your mom, i hope you get busted. one day when ur cleaning up dog **** and whiping people's asses u will wish you had done the work. ur mom needs 2 whup ur ***!
2007-02-15 16:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you are a little witch. tell her and you get going on cleaning up your act. you are sad someday you will see it wasn't good for you to do what you are ding. and you need to ge an education. dont' depend on someone lese to take care ofyou man what a loser you are
2007-02-15 19:26:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋