am i doing a mistake when i say ok to my boyfriend when he wants to go out with his friends? usally once in 15 days?
2007-02-12 09:13:15 · 16 answers · asked by music 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No not at all. He should enjoy time away from you and you shold do the same.
Are you concerned that he is doing not so nice things when he is with them thats giving you pause?
2007-02-12 09:17:17 · answer #1 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not.. just a simple thing that u dont hold on the neck.. someday u want to go out also with your friend that is only sign of love that give and take coz if u wont allow him sometimes maybe he think that negative about you so ur right nothing bad for what u do u only trust him thats why u let him go with a friend
2007-02-12 09:19:28 · answer #2 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go out, and you do the same with your mates. If you don't you will start to get fed up with each other, you need a break from the same ritual. Even if you don';t go with your mates, it's great to have a bit of time to yourself and do the things you want to do.
2007-02-12 09:46:20 · answer #3 · answered by Jeanette 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't own your boyfriend and each of you needs a little independence from one another. Your boyfriend will appreciate you more when you give him some freedom to enjoy his other friends without some sense of guilt or obligation to you.
2007-02-12 09:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frnakly he should hav eto ask your permission. Take a cue from him and scheudle a girls ngiht out for the same night. Nights apart make relationships stronger if you trust each other.
2007-02-12 09:31:30 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. People need to have alone time. Being around someone 24/7 is neither healthy nor smart. You need to give him breathing room and vice versa.
2007-02-13 03:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's healthy for people to have friends and interests outside of their relationship, just because you are part of a couple it does not mean you have to spend every moment together.
2007-02-12 21:53:14 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all a relationship is about giving and taking and we need to grown on our own also while we grow together. if it was every week or twice a week then I'd have a problem
2007-02-12 09:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by carinayota 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not your place to forbid him to do anything. why would letting him have a life be a mistake?? don't you want to go out with your friends once in a while???
2007-02-12 09:20:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you take the time to go out with your friends when he does?
2007-02-12 09:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by bassmonkey1969 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋