then after like 3 months she said she just wanted to be friends so i was like ok we can do that . so for the last 3 months we have been talking on the phone just as friends . she calls me everyday and talks like 3 hours a day late at night after she gets out of work . so heres the problem i have feelings for her but i dont want to ruin our friendship but some times it seeems like there is more coming from her than just friends like i can feel a vibe . so do u all think that she cares too i mean do just friends talk 3hours aday 7 days a week im scared to bring this up cuz i dont want to mess up what we have now cuz i realy love talking to her and shes been there for me when i needed her and i have been there when she needed me so any way im realy confused so tell me what u think should i tell her and risk our friendship or just keep it the way it is ..
2007-02-12 09:11:51 · 3 answers · asked by tom d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is no way I would chat that long with one of my guy buddies if I didn't have the hot's for him. Every good relationship is based on a good friendship first, those last the longest so I say go for it, the worst that could happen is she tells you she just wants to remain friends, you'll never know unless you speak up!Chances are......she is waiting for you to go first.
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2007-02-12 09:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dumped her first, and wouldnt come again along with her whilst she needed, then once you probably did you have been harm coz she had moved on? it form of seems such as you're the two in charge for the harm. What you may desire to ask your self is has the reason you broke up interior the 1st factor replaced? If no longer something has replaced, it relies upon in case you think of you may get previous your background or no longer. in case you think of you may get previous the background, and you've got a severe relationship, then decide for it. yet once you dont p.c. a severe relationship, dont waste her time if she does.
2016-10-02 00:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remain friends, maybe things will get better in the future.
2007-02-12 09:19:21 · answer #3 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋