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why does my ex keep coming back and trying to convince me he is going to change when he hasnt. ive given him many chances to change and he hasnt done it in 2 1/2 yrs. he not staying with me anymore and he comes by to visit and ask can he sleep on the couch and i told him no. he says he wants to be with me and put me first in his life. but when it comes time to do so he never does it. i know i kept giving him chances and he never changed. but why does he have it in his mind to keep trying to convince me he is going to change when he knos hes not. why does he do this? like i said i know ive given him many chances in the past and he probably think i will again becuz of the past. but my question is why does he keep doing this if he knows deep down he is not going to change? why cant he be man enough and admit that instead of playing mind games with me.? i know what my problem is and that is being to trusting and being in denial and settling for less. but what is his problem. plz help.

2007-02-12 09:10:44 · 4 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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He keeps doing it because you let him. I was in almost the situition. I let it go on for four years. Face it honey you are an in
between girl. When he hasn't got anything else going he comes
to you. He is gonna say what ever he has to to get in there. You know, so babygirl, take the love & care you have for him and
give it back to you. Break all ties, and run like that loser was on fire!!

2007-02-12 09:24:43 · answer #1 · answered by doraann 1 · 0 0

because he knows that YOU wont change. You keep accepting him back. Just cut him out. He'll come back when he wants, say whatever he feels will get you to say 'yes' to whatever he wants, and then most likely leave. the only time he is going to 'change' is when he breaks down on your front doorstep crying with an engagement ring in his hand. Move on and find someone else...i know its hard....and i hate telling people to move on and find someone else cuz it is REALLY not that easy, but with this jerk...there's so many better guys out there

2007-02-12 09:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Sometimes, specially whilst you're more youthful, and God best is aware of why, we similar to to pester! EVEN animals do it! We had a cat that used to freak out whilst one other cat troubled her. It was once bizarre, considering earlier than this, all of them received alongside (we had four). When the primary cat noticed her overreact, I wager she received a kick out of it and accelerated her efforts! When the others noticed this, they every, one at a time, started doing the identical, practically using the deficient cat loopy! They all tormented her to look her freak! So I wager it isn't only a human factor.

2016-09-05 07:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by capel 4 · 0 0

you keep accepting him thats one reason. if you stand your ground and dont take him back then he will quit when he sees that you mean business. anywhoo he thinks you will accept him thats why he keeps coming back. hes not going to change and he will do what you allow him to do. hope that helps. beleive me i have been there.

2007-02-12 09:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0 0

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