My brother spent the last 3 days down here in Florida visting with me and we had some fun, it had been almost over a year since we last saw each other in person, so it was great having time to chill out with him and have fun. Now the only down side is I am feeling a bit down and blue that he has gone back home in New York, since I am not sure when the next time we will get to hang out and have fun will be. Any ideas on how to get over the feeling you get when Company you did not want to leave has gone home?
2007-02-12 09:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by Jasen A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Shoulda...Coulda...Woulda...Please try not to ever 'should' on yourself. It can get messy. I have not seen my brother since 1998...and I wish......................
So, stay in touch through, e-mail, IM, cards, phone...etc...ad every chance u get say I love you
2007-02-12 19:48:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan a road trip or make solid plans of when you're going to hang out again. You'll get excited to see him and you need that anticipation. Focus on the time you'll get to spend together next, not the time you have to wait in between.
And you know, if you guys get together and play video games, you can still play Halo live with little head sets. Haha Good luck.
2007-02-12 17:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by LadyPassionFruit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time you think about calling him and don't, ...CALL!
If you can make him cool CD mixes do it and mail them to him. Anything small like that adds up to good feelings on both ends. Especially the mailing part. We all like getting things in the mail other than bills. E Mail pics of you and stuff you do! Save up to go up to NY and see him, set a goal to make a trip up there and DO IT! It'll give you something to look forward to rather than be sad about the past!! It's the little things.
2007-02-12 17:19:19 · answer #3 · answered by mYkuL C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is very sweet and touching.
Write a gratitude list and be thankful for the time you guys got to
spend together while he visited.
I understand what you're talking about and think you are very blessed to have such loving family relations.
Now,THAT'S something to be grateful for.
2007-02-12 17:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my brother is in iraq and i still have 5 months until i get to see him again. its hard but what i do is i just tell myself that its part of growing up. We werent going to live together for ever. maybe you should try to save your money and get a place close to him if you can.
2007-02-12 17:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by ☆..LoSEr..☆ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋