There was this guy I just wanted to be friends with. There was no chemistry between us and most of the time I was bored when I was with him. We had very few common interests. One night he told me he wanted to be in a relationship with me. I told him I couldn't. Then he said money would be no option if I was with him. That I could have whatever I wanted. To me this sounds desperate. Why would you want somebody to be with you when it is obvious they are not into you?
2007-02-12 08:33:12 · 12 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've known him for a year. I feel nothing
2007-02-12 08:44:11 · update #1
He isn't desperate. He just knows that every woman has her price and was trying to negotiate yours.
2007-02-12 08:36:58 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You didn't read the signals right.For many centuries all women wanted from a man was financial security.Hes going back old school to all he knows probably been out of the scene for awhile.I find it interesting how many of you get on peoples court with boyfriends who don't have a job and want you to support them.You should be glad he's not one of them.
2007-02-12 08:39:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both men and women can not except rejection. The offer of money is real. He proble thinks this will buy your affection. For your safety try not to be alone with this guy.
2007-02-12 08:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, money is the root of all evil.
On another note, sounds like he just wants to pay his way into your pants. You need to get a backbone and not let anyone disrespect you like that!
2007-02-12 08:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by hu5t14 (Jay) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys think that women will change their minds if they think that they'll be financially taken care of.
You're asking the right questions.... and yes, he does sound desperate!
2007-02-12 08:37:03 · answer #5 · answered by Kai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some guys think that money guarantees them a girl. It usually does, but not necessarily the girl of their choice.
2007-02-12 08:38:39 · answer #6 · answered by sarcastro1976 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4 weeks is quite long, i think of that he believes it's time to take the subsequent step, assembly his secret lady! he would not sound desirous to me, he purely needs to fulfill the lady he's been telling his thoughts to
2016-09-29 00:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by elzey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's trying to impress you. That and he obiously doesn't get the picture. I would say time to put some distance between you and him.
2007-02-12 08:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by GoodWillHunt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not only desperate! What about the insult?
2007-02-12 08:39:22 · answer #9 · answered by riffyxraff 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
because they might like you, I'd say don't judge and try to find out a little more about him.
2007-02-12 08:40:36 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋