i have never loved a guy in my life i liked but loved never..well once and i found out that he is not worthy and in some way that hearts me he was VERY clsoe to my heart but i was shoked about things i have knew about him and we stopped talking and stuff and NOW i have no feelings for him and im afraid to let anyone else in to my life.. the problem is when a guy tries to get closer to me i turn into amean girl and make him go away!! what should i do??
2007-02-12 08:19:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right, you do need help. Professional help, optimally. You need to find out what's got you so defensive about letting love into your life.
2007-02-12 08:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I am having the same problem! From my experience I would just be at arms length with guys. If you are being mean to guys, that means that you are not over the other guy. Once you are over him you will be able to accept other guys; you can't remember every relationship as a bad thing, you have to think of it as a good thing and know that you learned something from it! If it helps you; talk to your dad about it, he is a man! I hope I helped you!
2007-02-12 09:11:26 · answer #2 · answered by smartie94 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can say yes"" not all guy is jerk and not your ex why dont u try to be open minded being nice doesnt hurt you. maybe ur not yet ready about love just only flirting hmm dunno..iam not sure if your a real girl..
2007-02-12 08:29:54 · answer #3 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Perhaps talk to someone about your problems. Not all guys are jerks.
2007-02-12 08:24:05 · answer #4 · answered by hu5t14 (Jay) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, when love comes a knocking you will definitely know it, your turning away ones that dont knock,its ok
2007-02-12 08:30:02 · answer #5 · answered by yessy yes no 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus be nice,not every guy u meet is your ex boyfriend.try it
2007-02-12 08:23:32 · answer #6 · answered by hott g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk. That usually works.
2007-02-12 08:29:06 · answer #7 · answered by malaysniper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go. He's not worthy
2007-02-12 08:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋