Last night I had a horrible dream that my boyfriend of 6 years has not only cheated on me once but a few times and he finally decided to admit it. This is the second time I've had a dream like this. Does anyone know what that means?
2007-02-12 08:16:55 · 15 answers · asked by Destinee 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cheating (in a relationship)
To dream that your loved one is cheating on you can mean you're feeling insecure about your ability to hold their interest, or you're afraid of the idea of them cheating on you. A dream about cheating can also mean you're feeling jealous about your loved one devoting time or attention to something other than you (work, a hobby, watching TV, using the computer, etc.) - having nothing to do with any actual cheating. To dream about someone other than a romantic partner cheating on you means there's someone in your life whom you don't really trust. Occasionally, a dream about cheating means you do not trust God (you feel God has cheated you), or you do not trust yourself (you have cheated yourself).
2007-02-12 08:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just been playing on your mind for a while, the sub-conscious part of your mind so you haven't really been aware that this is something bothering you. Dreams are just your bodys way of processing information - don't treat it like a premonition because I very much doubt it is one. If you trust your boyfriend that is good, don't let this fear of him cheating ruin your relationship. If he is going to cheat on you (and I hope he doesn't) but if he does, he will do it whether you worry about it or not. And if you worry, you will destroy your relationship and push him away. My advice is to forget it and move on!
2007-02-12 16:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Joyful97 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't trust him as much as you want to, and it causes you anxiety and these dreams. If you have any reason to believe he would cheat on you, you should talk about it, and even if there's no reason to believe that, you stilll might want to ask him in a little more vague way, otherwise you'll probably continue to have the anxiety.
2007-02-12 16:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Lowa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had dreams like that, off and on for months.. and she was cheating on me.
2007-02-12 16:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by adam a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams come over if u only think of it.so better pray before bed.. have a nice sleep and sweet dreams
2007-02-12 16:21:43 · answer #5 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it means that your feeling insecure about the relationship and deep down you are worried that it will end. you need to sit and talk with him, and let him know how you are feeling. talking things out helps alot to clear out our feelings and it clues the other person in on our feelings. he should know how you feel so you can work out why you feel the way you do. GOOD LUCK, things will work out.
2007-02-12 16:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might mean that you aren't confident that he is the one for you or that he may be hiding something from you, our brains pick up on that sort of stuff and that may be a sign to pay attention
2007-02-12 16:20:30 · answer #7 · answered by Jess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means that deep down u have worries about your bf doing that!
when my and my bf 1st started dating we had those dreams!
when u trust him completely u probably woulnt have those anymore!
2007-02-12 16:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it means you are a closet gay afraid of the cookie monster......good luck with all that.
2007-02-12 16:20:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to talk to him, dreams are our subconcoious thoughts so possibly your thinkin that about him and dont realize it,
2007-02-12 16:21:10 · answer #10 · answered by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋