Okay i have 3 questions all conserning my mom. My grandmother thinks my mom is Bypolar, becaus she thinks she say's somthing but she realy didn't,she tell's me to do somthing then she changes her mind and tells me to do the oposit and she is allways blameing me and my brother for things that are out of our controle(She also has trouble finnding and keeping up with her stuff and is messy).
1)Dose she have a mental disorder, and how do find out if she dose(without her finding out).
2)Do you know about any good jobs, I need a job so i can get imansipated and move out.
3)Do you know any cheap placethat i can move to.
Please help i just really can't take it anymore she is driveing me up the walls( it goten so bad that i'm secondgeussing my self thinking maby that i'am the crazy one @_@.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!
2007-02-12 08:14:14 · 9 answers · asked by Asha J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and i don't have any relatives to move with (my dad's just as insane,and my grandmother is sickly and already has to much on her plate).
2007-02-12 08:26:33 · update #1
ok slow down first of all your mom sounds like maybe she has alsheimers not bipolor. or maybe just under alot of stress and yes she probably needs to see a dr about this it may just be a chemical imbalance and all she needs is med... and as i very well know dealing with a mom like this takes alot out of you but let me make this clear to you.. SHE IS YOUR MOM and that being said it sounds like she needs you so stop trying to get out and figure out how you can help her more.. i know it sucks but if she is sick she cant help the way she is acting and im sure she loves you very much.... if you are thinking that things will be easier if your on your own honny think again you may not have to deal with your mom but you will have to deal with a boss and everyone else in this world you will have to pay bills and buy and cook food do laundry ect and there is no cheap place to live no matter where you go you are looking at at least 700.00 a month and that is very cheap. so my advice to you is talk to you grandma and ask her to help you talk to your mom and get her to a dr asap good luck
2007-02-12 08:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all mom does sound bipolar. she also sound like she's going through the change of life. how old is she? i don't know what to do about the mental disorder. how old are you? you know without a degree or a diploma any job will be hard to get. you can work fast food for eight dollars an hour these day's. the cheapest place to move is with someone. find a couple of friends to move in with and share some rent and expenses. are you old enough to be emancipated. i think the age is 15, plus your mom has to sign the papers
2007-02-12 08:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by sexie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It certainly sounds as though your mother is suffering from some form of mental illness or dementia. She could even have early onset of Alzheimers. I suggest you speak to your school counselor about this. You mother may not be mentally competent to have custody of you and your brother but it would take the intercession of Child and Family Services and then you might be made a ward of the court and sent to live with a foster family while your mother undergoes evaluation and treatment. Is your grandmother willing to help? Could you live with her during that time? I highly recommend speaking with your school counselor as they are aware of agencies that should be able to help you. You aren't qualified to diagnose your mother's illness "without her knowing" and it would be a tragedy for your mother not to get the treatment she needs. Consider the mental hell she must be in right now. She deserves care just like you do.
2007-02-12 08:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom was like this for a while. She very well may have a bipolar disorder. In my case my mom was just depressed. Try and encourage her to go and talk to a doctor offer to go with her. Be careful about how you bring it up to her don't make her feel like you are "attacking" her and don't throw it in her face during an argument. Remember she may be really sick and right now she can't help the way she is acting. Good luck
2007-02-12 08:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Cheyenne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To force somebody insane in literal words would desire to be executed over the technique of many years except you’re defining insanity simply by fact the act of appearing the comparable activity many times awaiting a different result each and every time. Cults use strategies that force a guy or woman actually insane over a quantity of time. different persons would be uncovered to particular circumstances so frequently that they start to enhance psychiatric problems, making some incompetent. So sure… given the suited circumstances and sufficient time you may desire to force somebody insane on purpose… actually. Insane - exhibiting an entire loss of reason or foresight - seen legally incompetent or irresponsible simply by fact of a psychiatric illness
2016-09-29 00:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by elzey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your mom to a place that deals with this stuff!
go to google.com and type in where can a crazy women go?
or go to ask.com and type in where can a crazy women go?
that's all I know of to do...sorry if it doesn't work!I feel bad for you.
2007-02-12 08:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by pink_eyeliner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write down all her stytoms then google mentle ilness it sould get you some idea of what going on.
2007-02-12 08:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by C.K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to here
2007-02-12 08:39:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋