I think it's an absolute shame when a woman does not not know who fathered her child/children. Now I'm all for a woman having her fun and what not, but she BETTER know who fathered her babies! Or else Maury will always have a show!! Which I don't mind, because I personally LOVE the Maury paternity shows. But it's sad sometimes because these kids can't pick their mommies...
What do you think?
2007-02-12 08:14:01 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Of course, I believe monogamy is best for the obvious reasons! It's the ideal situation, but not all women are gonna follow that standard. As long as she's not intentionally hurting people or spreading diseases, why should I care?
2007-02-12 08:23:06 · update #1
Well first of all i would like to point out that everybody is entitled to their own opinions but most of these people are so ******* ignorant. Im 22, in my prime. At any given time i have at least 3 guys that i **** with. I was never an unloved child, i have very high self esteem, i just like to get it on. And i HATE the way condoms feel, i prefer the actual raw skin to rub up on me. So when i found out i was pregnant, i really had to sit down and think who the father of my baby is. I had an idea, but i acutally had to put in the last day of my period in the computer, find out my possible conception date. All three know i am pregnant, and they know that its a possibility for one of them to be a father, BUT the one i think is the father, is very excited, and of course we will do a dna test, but for all of you who think its so SAD and Horrible... get a life, and open your eyes.. we are not in the 1950's .... Ignorance is a virtue...
2007-02-12 09:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by misskaykai 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think that it is a down right disgrace. When you lay down with someone it should be because you have some kind of feelings for them not for a quick screw. That is what's wrong with the world today. People just lay down with anyone at any given time and then nine months down the road here comes a baby and you don't know where to begin looking for the dad. I think people need to start thinking with what's on the top of their shoulders rather than what's between their legs. There are so many diseases out there in this day and age and people still don't seem to care. I thought this world would end by all these wars and things going on now. What I really think now is that all these diseases and AIDS are going to be the death of us all. People especially women need to think of their bodies as something special not like a piece of garbage. I don't feel sorry for women who don't know who their babies' father is. I think they need to grow up and have respect for their bodies as well as themselves. Hell if you don't stand for something then you'll fall for anything.
2007-02-12 09:11:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. What's up with these women having 5 paternity tests done, none of them turn out to be the daddy, and they don't know WHO the father is? There's a difference between having fun and being stupid. If they're having unprotected sex with that many guys, they're prime candidates for HIV and other STDs. I wasn't exactly an angel myself in high school, but I was never so out of control that I wouldn't've known who the father was.
I'm now nearly 29 and have been with my husband (and only him) since I was 19 going on 20, and I've never looked back. We have a beautiful 6 year old daughter and a son on the way (38 weeks now). It's really nice not only knowing who the father of my children is, but also being in a stable relationship with him. Nice for us and nice for the kids, too. No baby-daddies for me! I wouldn't want to deal with all the ex-boyfriends!
2007-02-12 08:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for the babies in this situation. If the mothers were more responsible then they would know who the father was. When you have to have several guys tested there is truly something wrong with that.
I too LOVE the Maury paternity tests....they always seem so sure the man is the father reguardless if they have already had 10 other men tested and then ALWAYS seem so shocked when he isn't....go figure.
2007-02-12 08:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by mom2ace 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It might be tragic, but in these days of DNA testing, I don't see the great harm in a woman having more than one sexual partner, and having a condom break or some such mishap. Unwanted pregnancy is a risk people take when they have sex, whether they are married or sleeping with 10 different people. A woman need not be stigmatized if she doesn't know who the father is.
We don't call a man a whore if he turns out to have a child he didn't know about, as long as he takes responsibility. I only have a problem with women who have children, and then don't take care of them. The same goes for men.
2007-02-12 08:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Year of the Monkey 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
well i think that women should know who the father of there children are. so that means that they need to stop sleeping with more then one guy at a time. they need to be more reasonable with there actions.
i use to watch Maury all the time and sometimes the women would bring on 6 or more guys and non of them were the father. i think its sick that women have to do that (sleep with more then one person). some women do it because they have very low self esteem..
your right the kids cant pick there moms or dads.
2007-02-12 09:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by redhot_001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to do a littel bit of research on the female reproductive system and learn that not all women ovulate at the same time every month and that sperm can live in her for up to 5 days... so if you're all for women having their FUN then how the **** do you think it's a shame when they can't tell who fathered their babies?
If they have one partner, and one partner only, that's the only way to be certain who did the deed.
I'm NOT all for women having their fun, I think they should have more respect for themseves... BUT sometimes sh*t happens you know.
2007-02-12 08:19:25 · answer #7 · answered by Gig 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely sad!! I think if women and men want to have fun they need to use protection. No ifs and buts! Being a teacher you see how much things like this screw up a child. There are so many caring and loving parents out there that can't have children and then people like that who sleep around can pop them out quite easily. Way not fair!
2007-02-12 08:25:17 · answer #8 · answered by hottee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is important to know who fathered your child, for medical reasons especially. My older daughter is from a relationship I was in and her father just wasn't ready to be a dad, I chose to continue the pregnancy. She has never met her real father, but when she is ready, at least I know who he is and where to find him. I am now married and have had another daughter. My daughter loves her little sister and calls my husband dad, he is probably the only father she will know. It has worked out well for us, but yes, it is important to know the paternity of your children.
2007-02-12 08:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Debbi S 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have two points to make about this:
1. It seems she doesn't respect herself because evidence points to the fact that she had unprotected sex with more than one dude within a short period of time.
2. To those who do have unprotected sex and you're not married: If you are going to hump around, use a condom!!! You are idiots if you don't! Don't you know what diseases are roaming around nowadays? Diseases that even penicilin can't fight off anymore??
In conclusion, I am a straight female, and I have very little respect for someone who doesn't know who her baby father is.
2007-02-12 08:24:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋