I really like this guy who is 3 years older than me and for the past week all I could think about was him, now I'm like remembering every guy I ever liked and replaying all of them in my head. Some I know like me, but our chances of seeing each other are small, some I like but I don't know if they like me and then there is my recent crush who lives in MIAMI ( I don't live close to there) MIGHT like me(I think he does but is shy about showing it) and makes me smile whenever I see him. HELP ME Why is this all so confusing NOW when it was so simple before? If I knew if this guy liked me it would help a lot what are some surefire-never-fail-signs?
2007-02-12 07:56:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is numerous answers to this question, depending on certian things. First of all if you are a teenager, this will happen alot, especially while your body changes and you seem to be attracted to different things. second, if you are older, I think its confusing becaue women, as well as most men tend to long for specific qualities that are split among different people. this is why I feel people begin to have multiple relationships. Theres a saying my uncle used to have," If my wife wont do it, i will find a woman who will".
2007-02-12 08:07:08 · answer #1 · answered by eddielvs2club 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will give you some advise you need to take with you for the rest of your life. Do not sit back and expect a men to do what you want, when you want. We are not mind readers, tell us. We are most likely the simplest animals on the planet when it comes to love and relationships. You tell us what you are thinking and we will respond.
A new relationship is like a cold call in sales. In other words, you do not have him as a boyfriend now, the worst possible outcome of expressing your feeling towards him is, you wont have him as a boy friend tomorrow. Sure beats wondering huh?
Let him know how you feel. And when you are married and have three little tax deductions, let him know how yo feel. Don't sit back waiting for him to figure it out on his own. We are dumb that way.
Best of luck:)
2007-02-12 08:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Joe P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand how you feel..Before I started goin' out with my current boyfriend, I liked a guy who was 3 years older than me sooooo much..oh my gosh I was obsessed with him..haha:] But, I knew he liked me..so I jsut waited for awhile and let love find me..and it worked:] Now, I'm glad I glad I didn't go for the older guy..I mean, He's a great guy and all, but nobody could compare to my baby:]
Sorry to go on and on about myself like that..but sometimes it's easier to speak from experience..lol:P Anyway, to make a long story short..spend some time alone and listen to what your heart tells you and go with who you truly want to be with. Then tell the guy..before he goes and finds another girl:]
Good luck, and I hope your valentine's day is wonderful! :D
2007-02-12 08:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he dont live near you then have fun with him when he around but dont date him, that will be to hard to make work. there are many hot guys near you..so meet new ppl and try new things. dont keep ur mind in the past, does no good. thats what confuses you!! if u want to no if someone likes u, then they leave signs..like flirting with u...sticking up for you...calling you alot and all. good luck to ya- hoops
2007-02-12 08:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The simple way is this. When you meet a person you like, ask them out. You will find out then and there if you are wasting your time.
Come to find out, there are a lot of guys who are afraid to ask a girl out. Feel free to take the inititive.
2007-02-12 08:05:53 · answer #5 · answered by khanofali 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy is different... there are no surefire-never fail-signs unfortunately... just go with your gut. your intuition is 9/10 right... those are pretty good odds if you ask me.
2007-02-12 07:59:41 · answer #6 · answered by Velvet_heart 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
likes u if he's paying special attention 2 u
else u have a pack of lite beer in the trunk he knows bout
2007-02-12 07:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by willow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he tells you he likes you, that's a good sign. If he calls you, that's a sign, too.
2007-02-12 07:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
burger king meal #4 works
2007-02-12 08:02:00 · answer #9 · answered by eric c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile at him; take the initiative
2007-02-12 07:58:23 · answer #10 · answered by kralwons 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋