It seems that he has major trust issues from his past friendships/relationships and he can never trust/belive a word people/I say. And have never given him a reason to. I've been completely honest and upfront about everything. Everything ends up being an argument because of the trust issue he has, he never can believe a word, and its just wearing me out.
2007-02-12 07:51:41 · 8 answers · asked by Beth A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you cant make him trust you... its not your problem... its something HE needs to deal with. if i were in your situation i would tell him to get his sh*t sorted out... or id dump him.
2007-02-12 07:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Velvet_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my personal opinion you can not change a man. His past has nothing to do with his present,99.9 % men are logical thinker. Most of them are good mind reader,(so I'm careful what I think when I am w/a man).If you told the man every thing about you,like an open book ,a man will not trust and disrespect you. If I were you,I don't think I will be happy with this man,that there is always a show down whenever I communicate w/ him. I will dump him like a trash. Trust is important in relationship. Next time I know better.
2007-02-12 08:18:33 · answer #2 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is be truthful and honest. If he can't accept it, then it, then he has the issue not you. There is really nothing else you can do. Try not to argue with im. Say what you need to and let it go. A person can not argue alone. Good luck.
2007-02-12 07:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you realy love this man you will understand his condition and deal with it,but if you don't love him just move on and find someone that will actually give you his love and trust!!!Good luck!!
2007-02-12 07:55:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever may come stay at your words.and do it.. so a man will trust you and tell him that to believe you coz ur honest..and tell him that ur difference than other. maybe time by time hes trust will be back.
2007-02-12 07:56:43 · answer #5 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its wearing on you It might want to go ahead and leave, but if you want him, then be open and honest with him, like an open book. don't hid anything, and in time he will trust you.
2007-02-12 07:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go because if you do not have trust you do not have a thing found someone who well love you with all has heart
2007-02-12 07:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by linda l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, u can work on acts.acts are more valuable than words. personally, I believe on acts, because acts are facts.
but if this is not enough for him, then move on.
2007-02-12 08:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by Leon the african 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋